u/External-Patience-55

Does anyone know about a company called HealthAid Trust located at 2 Sandton Drive , Sandton? I recently got a remote job offer from them but I can't seem to find their office on Google maps. They also have almost no online presence besides AI pictures on Facebook.

Since the role is remote , they told me that they will send the laptop and other items needed to do the job via courier. They only thing I did not understand is why they requested me to pay for the courier fees (which is 1.8k apparently). Can anyone please confirm is this is a legit company or just another scam.

Hi guys. Last year I did a Higher Certificate in Disability Studies at UCT. I had NSFAS funding but they did not pay for everything (which is something that I only found out later in the year). Long story short , I now owe the institution R42,000 and will not be able to get my certificate unless I settle my debt. I have tried applying for bursaries , opened up a Back-A-Buddy campaign and also created a profile on Feenix but to no avail. I have also tried asking for help from CEO's/managers of business via email and I either receive no response at all or a generic message. Before I take out a loan at the bank to settle these fees does anyone have any other ideas of how I can somehow pay my outstanding amount?

I 22F have been dating my boyfriend 26M for almost a year now. The relationship started off normally but after 5 months we had to start doing long distance. Over the course of the relationship my boyfriend has always kinda been on and off with texting. Sometimes he would be very active online and sometimes just "dissappear". He owns a couple of business and I can understand how one could get occupied for the whole day but for some reason it really bothers me whenever i see him being active on insta but my messages are still on delivered or left on read.

Previously this would send me into a spiral. It would literally ruin my whole day, i wouldn't stop crying whilst tying to figure out what i might have done wrong or if he has maybe lost interest. We would also go weeks without video calling and homeboy would only ever say i love you after i said it. After doing some research, I decided on making a date/calling calendar for us. This way he would already know the days and time we have to see each other and thus being able to adjust his schedule to make time for me too. That idea didn't work and he would somehow "forget" that we had something scheduled. When i confronted him about this he always replied by saying "why didn't you remind me" , shifting the blame to me.

After a while of this happing + him showing no effort that he still wants to be with me i gathered some courage one night and asked if he still wants to be in this relationship. He said yes and also started texting and calling more often and we were in a better space. Now we are back to square one again. At first I panicked and whatever but as the days goes by I am kinda starting to care less and less. We are supposed to see each other again in September and the excitement that i used to feel about finally seeing and being in his arms again is gone. If anything I am kinda hoping that we break up too (and i feel bad for feeling this way).

I am tired of riding this emotional roller-coaster waiting for him to finally show up and make me feel wanted and seen again. This is my first real relationship and i don't know if it is time to pull the plug of if this is just something people in relationships go through. Any advice??

Hi guys. I F(22) have been dating my boyfriend M(26) for 11 months now. I am still farely new to relationships and dating bc I only started dating around 20 years old. There has been something that has been bugging me for the longest time ever. That something is side chicks. Can someone please expain to me why some men would have a girlfriend/wife and still have someone else on the side (i am not judging , just genuinely curious). For the sake of this argument lets assume that they are in a "happy" relationship.

I am asking this bc lately i kind of found out that my boyfriend has been seeing someone else. When i firts found out it really hurt me but I now can't seem to understand why he did it. We are intimate on a regular basis, have alot of deep discussions , i have met his friends and parents, ect. I am not saying that we have a perfect relationship but according to me we are doing just fine. I am past the stage of blaming myself bc i now understand that cheating or having a side chick sometimes have nothing to do with the main girlfriend (please correct me if I am wrong) but what I struggle to understand is why you would go looking for "love" / intimacy from someone else when you have it at home. Besides the "sex is just sex and it doesn't really mean anything to a man" reason, what other reasons are there for this type of behavior?

This is really stupid but i genuinely do not know what to do. So i F(22) have been dating my boyfriend M(27) for almost 11 months now. The relationship started off normal but after 3 months he had to move back to his city. Around 6 months i went to his city for a week to go visit him and it has been 5 months since we have last seen each other. We call about once a week , text messages are starting to die down and whatever, I am kinda worried that this might mean that the relationship is coming to an end but at the same time i also feel like maybe it is just a phase that we are going through. I sometimes go through his following on insta just to see if he has followed anyone new (i know i shouldn't be doing that lol). Last night i had a dream about him cheating on me with a specific girl that i have seen under his following. I don't know if this is God giving me a sign or if it is just a stupid dream. Our relationship hasn't been the best and there has been times where i felt like i wasn't the only one in his life but i just let it slide mainly bc i didn't want to loose him. Do I tell him about this dream or just keep quiet. I feel like if i tell him he might feel like i am accusing him of something that he might be innocent of and that might also cause unnecessary tension and drama in the relationship. WHAT DO I DO NOW GIRLS , because this dream is really bothering me. I'll be checking the comments for some advice.