u/Extreme-Gift-9261

Kto na Slovensku má peniaze na byt v novostavbe?

Už mi to dlhšie vŕta hlavou a asi nepoznám dosť ľudí na to aby som si spravila lepší obraz... ale veľmi ma zaujíma, kto si kupuje byty v tých nových domoch, ktoré sa teraz stavajú. Som z Bratislavy takže tu sa orientujem najviac - všade samé rozostavané novostavby, s bytmi o veľkosti väčšej špajzy ale s cenami od 250 000 vyššie. To je ešte suma, o ktorej si viem predstaviť že ju dvaja ľudia s lepším platom a hypotékou dokážu za 30 rokov splatiť- ale to hovoríme o dvojizbovom kamrlíku. 3 a viac izbové byty, kam by sa zmestil rodina sú samozrejme drahšie. A napríklad teraz som pozerala ponuku v projekte Tíšiny ktorý má vzniknúť vedľa OD Slimák (takže žiadna extra lukratívna lokalita) a za 3-izbak pýtajú 550 000... ja skrátka nepoznám nikoho, kto by si taký byt mohol dovoliť, ani na splátky. Ale stavajú sa jedna radosť. Prosím, vysvetlite mi to, lebo tomu očividne nerozumiem.

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u/Extreme-Gift-9261 — 4 days ago

If there's anyone who managed to truly come to believe they are worthy of acceptance and love: how did you do it?

My question implies that you didn't believe at first, but then you somehow managed to overturn your conviction and wholeheartedly believed that you are at least about as acceptable and lovable as the average person?

Ever since I remember, I had this feeling that I don't belong anywhere, that nobody likes me and that I'm overall just fundamentally incompatible with everybody. The evidence, however, points to a reality where there must be some redeemable qualities about me, because I've always had some friends, I'm in a long term romantic relationship, and sometimes people even outright tell me that they like me. In fact, I'm the one who withdraws from relationships...

And it is 100% because I do not believe that I'm not laughable idiot with nothing valuable to them. I don't trust anybody, because I'm absolutely convinced that there is no way that they actually like me. Cognitively I know I'm most likely an averagely likeable person, but emotionally, I am unable to believe it.

Is there any way to change this? I'm 28 and I don't want my life to be like this. I'm basically in a constant state of derealization because my rational and emotional experiences differ so vastly.

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u/Extreme-Gift-9261 — 8 days ago