I bought my girlfriend a personalized necklace and she never wears it
so this happened about eight months ago and i still think about it. i spent a decent amount of money on a dainty necklace for my gf with her initials engraved on it. it looked really nice in the pictures on the website, had good reviews, seemed like the perfect gift
then i never saw her wear it. I would see her wear other jewlery but never the one i gave her.
after like two months i asked her why she wasnt wearing it and she just started to get uncomfortable. then she said it looked tacky, like those were her exact words. she said the engraving looks cheap and thin, like its going to fall off, and she felt self conscious wearing something like that
tbh i was crushed. i thought a gift like that would be more special since it was personalized, and she was trying so hard to be nice but i could tell she just didnt like it at all. now every time i see that necklace in her drawer i feel this wave of embarrassment.
what am i supposed to do now, should i get another gift or replace it with another jewlery piece? i would appreciate some help.