Completei meus primeiros 5 km, que, durante meses, foram meu maior objetivo. Agora que consegui, gostaria de diminuir meu pace para competir e fazer o TAF.
Idealmente, gostaria de chegar ao pace 5 nos 5 km em um ano.
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I (18F) have a crush on a guy (22M). He's very involved in his church, and we mainly see each other at our Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu gym. I've also been to his church a few times because he kept inviting me.
He's a pretty serious and reserved person. We've only had one conversation that actually lasted for a while. After that, I tried messaging him a couple of times, and although he always replied, he never really kept the conversation going. At BJJ, whenever we talk, the conversations are usually short and die out quickly.
The confusing part is that when I'm not at training, he'll sometimes ask other people where I am. Every now and then he'll also come over and start a conversation with me on his own. Once I shared some cake with him, and afterward he came to talk to me as well, but nothing really came from it.
He invites me to his church pretty often, but I can't tell if that's genuine interest or if he's just being polite since he's active there.
I'd really like to ask him out, but I don't feel like we know each other well enough. Since our conversations are always so brief, I don't know if asking him out would be too forward.
Do you think he sounds shy and reserved, or does it seem more likely that he's simply not interested and I should move on?