u/FamiliarToday4678

Im FA, dated another FA. The mirroring was intense.

I admit I want them back.

I keep getting mixed messaging on how I should act online social media, some say to show subtle signals that Im dating. Others say that would be get me blocked.

For me, Im anxious leaning FA and he is Dismissive leaning FA, if I saw him dating someone else, it would make me want to unfollow, block and move on. Seeing him happy with someone else kills attraction for me.

Curious if thats true for others?

Whats the best way to get him interested again?
To get him back. Theres a lot of hurt feelings on both sides.

Its been 3 months.

ISTJs, how would you feel receiving a handwritten letter from someone you dated for a few months, where things ended not because of conflict or rejection, but simply because life got in the way and communication faded?

The 1-page letter isn’t asking for anything or trying to rekindle the relationship. At its core, it’s a gratitude letter. It reflects on meaningful moments we shared, expresses appreciation for the ways he showed up for me during a difficult period in my life, and shares the impact he had on me.

Would receiving something like this feel touching, overwhelming, uncomfortable, or something else entirely?

I’d especially love to hear from ISTJs who have been on the receiving end of something similar.

Edit:
He told me his love language was words of affirmation

Ive never had one, the closest was an ESTJ bf and the thing we fought most about was his constant going out but everything else we were super compatible.

My favorite coworker for years was an ISTJ man but he was in a relationship, what a great guy.

I believe I went on a date with an ISTJ and we hit it off but then he ghosted me and now Im so freaking sad 😭 (Should I message him, Im not a double texter. If I dont get a response, I just let it go)