u/Familiar_Ad8551

i (22m) havent had a real(or intimate) relationship in 6 years, i had some flings and love interests but it always came crushing down. The last two girls i was with, one just got bored of me and started ignoring me and the other one pretty much the same but being upfront and honest about it and not just leaving, and that pretty much sums up my last 6 years in that regard. That leads us to why i feel so heartbroken today, i met this girl like 3 weeks ago and from the get go i showed my interest in her, and she reciprocated, we started talking and last friday we had a date. everything was great, we had dinner, watched some anime, cuddle and kiss all night and we even slept on the same bed (something i havent done with anyone). and today when i thought everything was gonna be great, she tells me she has started dating a mutal friend of ours. i dont feel betrayed or anything, we didnt have a defined relationship, I just feel like i'll never find anyone, its always the same, just when i feel like i actually like someone, something happens, and im left wondering if im cursed or is there something wrong with me that nobady wants to tell or what. I geniuenly cant even think about that the last time someone love me was when i was 16, and ever her left me for someone else, even if in the end she regreted that, it was the last taste of love i had and she didnt deserve it.

im a 22 yo man so just as it says, i feel we are not on the same level of maturity regarding how we should function. we have been seen eachother for a few weeks now and have been noticing little differences between how we interact. This really boils down to me maybe thinking shes too young, and still feeling like kind of a creep. Is it creepy for a 22yo to date a 19 yo? Maybe im been an ass and not giving this girl the chance she deserves just because of a few interactions.

i would really apreciate advise on how to deal with this and how to bring it up to her without sounding weird, its been 5 years since my last real relationship and i really know how to procede with my confliction, because otherwise i really like her.

Also, when i asked my brother for advice he says it was creepy for me dating someone that was only 1 year out of highschool and that made it more like real for me.

TL;DR i feel like shes immature but maybe im just in my head because of our age gap and i would love some advice on how to procede.

Srry if it didnt make much sense, english is not my first lenguage