u/Fancy-Ease2603

I recently got a job and I'd be relying on this to move out. However I might get night shifts (im an adult btw), and my parents told me they dont approve and will want me to quit if thats the case. I wanted to give myself some weeks to get consistent income, then move out with my thousands in savings from other sources. The thing is if I quit this job then I'd be stuck with them. And if i do it anyways, theyll likely stalk me and harass me into complying (theyve done it before..). I had been hoping myself they're not abusive after all, but they'd expect me to quit my job so........ I guess that confirms it. But yeah if I do this any ideas to move out in a few days?

I'm curious to see some of the insights people had after estranging themselves. In my case, I feel that living with my parents limits me in all aspects of adulthood as they clearly feel enmeshed with me and have crossed boundaries several times in order to make sure it remains that way. I feel this will become even more obvious to me once I'm out there on my own. But yeah, what about you guys? What are some ways they were holding you back?

I'm just tired ngl. I don't want to deal with the man who is supposed to be my "father" anymore. I dont want to deal with his control, intimidation, him constantly telling me id be fucked/useless without him, it makes me sad at this point. I just want to leave and not see or talk to him again. Im an adult and Ive got two part time jobs lined up. Ive also got thousands in savings. Ive been told that Im able to get out pretty much now, just gotta collect my important documents and secure a place. My jobs are sort of recent though so im waiting for next paystub to be approved to live somewhere, but if not what can I do? Is it financially realistic to live in a hotel temporarily? Any other suggestions?

I'm just tired ngl. I don't want to deal with the man who is supposed to be my "father" anymore. I dont want to deal with his control, intimidation, him constantly telling me id be fucked/useless without him, it makes me sad at this point. I just want to leave and not see or talk to him again. Im an adult and Ive got two part time jobs lined up. Ive also got thousands in savings. Ive been told that Im able to get out pretty much now, just gotta collect my important documents and secure a place. My jobs are sort of recent though so im waiting for next paystub to be approved to live somewhere, but if not what can I do? Is it financially realistic to live in a hotel temporarily? Any other suggestions?