u/Fancy_Ad_9231

I'm just at that age where there's relationship drama everywhere. Most of the time it's women I know who end up hurt.

What I keep seeing is a pattern: some women consistently choose partners with obvious red flags, then stay in the victim role. The warning signs are usually there, they just get ignored for things like money or status.

For my own peace, I've decided to stop giving advice or talking about relationship drama with people who are stuck in that cycle.

At some point, women have to take responsibility for the choices we keep making.

I know a certain content creator who is an absolutely foul human being and is universally disliked amongst family.
But guess what, this person has a huge following online deceiving people and camouflaging their true colors?
Someone who is verbally abusive to his parents while posting glowing birthday posts of them.
It turns my stomach to see their content.

Does anyone know content creators who are a completely different person IRL in a bad way??

Nigerians are so performative in their copy culture of the western world.

I was discussing the issue of piercing baby’s ears with a male friend, and he was so vehemently against it, insisting that the baby should be given the right to choose when they grow up.

But guess what, when it came to the topic of male circumcision, he became very quiet. 🤐

I’ve been with three guys who I loved and who loved me. I also was attracted to them and they were to me. Absolutely nice guys, very attentive, gave me gifts, no cheating, and quite devoted to me. I ended the relationship with them largely due to being at different places in life.

Now, despite being very lucky in relationships, I’m frustrated by sex. It just seems that even though these guys were very attentive outside the bedroom, in the bedroom it seemed they didn’t understand how much foreplay women need. We end up going in too soon and if the sex last too long, I’m in pain. I’ve never been able to orgasm during sex with all three. They just focus on lasting long which means absolutely nada if I’m in pain.

It’s just got me thinking, are other women going through this? Because these guys (still with one of them) are perfect but we just can’t seem to be on the same wavelength on this.

I don’t need advise on how to make it better, I just want to hear experiences of other women, single/married.

It is a Good Day!