From Jail to Preaching Philosophy?

From Jail to Preaching Philosophy?

Guys, Ashmitha’s husband Vishnu posted a voice recording of the police officer and Divya soon after coming out of jail, and later deleted it. Now he’s speaking like a saint. Who is even buying tickets for his music and philosophy sessions after all the allegations about scamming people’s money? How does he carry on like nothing happened without showing even a little guilt?

u/Fantastic-Warning758 — 5 days ago

Inframe : Madan gowri

Why did Madan stop posting about his wife and personal life? Also, how does he still manage to sustain the same type of content after all these years?

u/Fantastic-Warning758 — 18 days ago

Inframe : keerthi shrathah

I feel the same about this YouTube comment. Honestly, I agree with what they’re saying.

I used to watch Ram with Jaanu, but these days it feels like all she does is promotion. 4–5 shampoo promotions in a month… girl, how do you even use all of them? I know it’s mostly for money, but at least have some empathy for the people who have supported you since the beginning, when you had almost nothing.

Also, I’m not commenting on her body or saying she shouldn’t dress however she wants. But some of her recent looks feel a bit forced compared to her older photos. Having a bigger bust and cleavage is completely normal, but now it sometimes feels more deliberate. Idk, people really change once they start making money.

Still, I genuinely wonder how people continue watching all there videos. And I’m also curious how her parents and in-laws are okay with whatever she chooses to do.

u/Fantastic-Warning758 — 1 month ago

How do you deal with loneliness after marriage?

I feel so lonely and I honestly don’t know how to deal with it.

I’ve never had a huge friend group, but I did have a few friends. After I got married a few months ago, they slowly stopped talking to me, and now I don’t really have anyone besides my husband and my mom.

My husband owns a business, so he leaves in the morning and comes home at night. My in-laws live on the ground floor while we live on the first floor, but we don’t really have a relationship with them either. There’s also no one around me—no close neighbors or anyone I can just casually talk to.

I call my mom and talk to her, but my sibling works in IT and doesn’t really call or check on me either. So most of the time, it feels like I have no one.

Before marriage, I also worked in IT, but after getting married, I haven’t been able to find a job because my husband’s business is in a smaller town. I’ve been looking for WFH opportunities but haven’t had any luck yet.

My husband and my mom are basically my whole world. I’m grateful for them, and sometimes I actually enjoy the peacefulness, but most of the time I feel lonely, bored and irritated.

For those of you who have gone through something similar, how do you deal with loneliness after marriage? How do you build a life for yourself when you don’t really have friends, work, or people around you?

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u/Fantastic-Warning758 — 2 months ago

Am I Overreacting, or Is My Mother-in-Law Crossing Boundaries?

Hi guys,

Please help me. I really don't know how to deal with my mother-in-law.

My boyfriend and I got married two months ago. It was a love-cum-arranged marriage.

My mother-in-law always talks to me as if she has good intentions. She has never openly shown that she dislikes me. I don't talk back to her, I never refuse anything she asks, and I've always tried to be a good daughter-in-law. I genuinely believed she liked me.

She lives on the ground floor, while my husband and I live on the first floor. One day, I accidentally overheard her talking very badly about me to her daughter, saying things that were completely untrue. I was heartbroken, but I didn't have the courage to confront her.

After that, I started noticing that she would buy the exact same things I bought for our home. At first, I thought it was just a coincidence, but eventually I realized that she comes into our house when we're not home, looks around at the things I've bought, and then asks her daughter to buy the same items. Almost everything I buy, she wants to have as well.

She has also asked for a spare key to our floor, just like I have a spare key to their floor, and that has made me even more uncomfortable.

My husband knows about her behavior and understands her intentions. In fact, both my husband and his sister have told me that this is just how their mother is. They both dislike the way she behaves and have acknowledged that she acts this way with people. My husband keeps telling me to stop going downstairs and maintain some distance from her.

The problem is that I'm worried if I suddenly stop going downstairs or reduce contact with her, she'll create a huge issue out of it and make me look like the bad person in the family.

I feel stuck between protecting my peace and avoiding unnecessary family drama. Has anyone been in a similar situation? How did you handle it?

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u/Fantastic-Warning758 — 2 months ago