u/Far-Conclusion-9921

So this isn’t a current thing anymore but I want to know for future reference, I was talking to this girl a while back and we had gotten pretty close to making it an actual relationship, unfortunately the way I handled her sending me nsfw pictures might have been a major reason she lost interest, I don’t really understand how I’m supposed to react over text when I’m sent something like that in public, it’s not like I’m able to send anything back. This girl had a habit of sending me those things when she knew I was outdoors and because of that I had never really responded with anything. So I ask, to any women out there… how are we men supposed to respond when you send us a spicy picture?

Im a 19M in college and I have older friends, it’s my first year so im still getting the hang of being in a new environment and all. I was never really the best at noticing who was interested in anything about me, im kinda a big guy so eventually I just shut off all attraction to anyone cause I never really thought anybody would ever actually give me the time of day. Not to toot my own horn or anything but I guess this drew some of the girls in while I was in high school? (It never got past the talking stage lol) anyways, I still haven’t really put myself out there and am not really actively looking for anyone but I wouldn’t be opposed if someone approached me Yk? Recently I was told that this older girl had been eyeing me down but nobody will tell me who cause I guess she’s “someone I may or may not know”, the thing is… most if not all of the female friends I ever actually make are either gay or are literally just using me to get at a friend which I don’t mind cause I’m always gonna be a good wingman 😅. How am I supposed to know who this mystery woman is??? 😭

So a while ago I was with this girl, shirt after she had lost interest in me but that’s another story to get into story, unfortunately the relationship had ended and we haven’t seen/talked to each other since, now that I’m single and looking, I’m looking back on some of the mistakes I could’ve made to let her lose interest, for one I don’t think it was a good idea to not say anything when she sent me a nude 😅 I asked a friend and he also had no idea how your actually supposed to respond to them, are we supposed to say some cheesy compliment or something? She wasn’t into the whole sharing thing but she had a kink for turning me on while I was out doing my business around town. That being said I couldn’t ever really send one back cause she only ever liked doing it when I was outside 😅, anyways can any ladies tell me how i could’ve handled this differently for the future? I’d appreciate any advice!