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Before investing time in CF4CF conversations, it’s useful to know whether you’re even looking in the right pool. Beyond the usual CF filter, I’ve found that ideology often becomes one of the biggest compatibility factors.

I’m posting a series of quick polls, not to judge anyone’s views, but to understand how much ideological alignment matters within this community. Hopefully, the results help people get a better sense of whether they’re searching in the right place and what they can realistically expect.

(My friend is struggling to find CF here, and religion ideology is an major issue, so that’s where i get the idea to post a poll)

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Hey, I’m 30M, currently working a corporate job in Bangalore. My job is pretty boring, so I don’t want to bore you by explaining what I do.

Outside of work, I’m the kind of person whose interests are all over the place. One week I’m binge watching movies, another week I’m trying to get back into writing, and every now and then I convince myself I’ll pick up an old hobby again.

I love sunsets, even I don’t understand my obsession with them, my gallery is full of sunset pictures. I also love flowers of all kinds. I hate the chaos of the city, but sometimes I love it because it reminds me how big the world is and how small and insignificant our lives are. I love animals too, I’d pet a tiger if it let me.

I’m an atheist, not a closet one. I’ve been outspoken about my beliefs and opinions all my life. I’m a feminist, and I admire women who stand up for themselves, even the so called bad ones. I think many of them have good reasons to be that way. We’ve men made enough of a mess of this world. It’s time women do whatever the hell they want.

My life goals are pretty simple, enjoy good food, never miss a beautiful sunset (especially when there are clouds in the sky), watch movies that make you feel things you otherwise wouldn’t, make money, and travel.

I also have a few side quests. Someday I want to buy a huge cake and finish it in one sitting. Travel to a random city without making any plans. Crash a wedding with my friends or maybe with my partner. Go hiking, which I currently hate, but still want to give a shot.

As for my appearance, I think I’m good looking. I wasn’t in college, but the gym, skincare, and a better diet have done wonders. I’m also tall enough to grab things from the top shelf.

I drink occasionally. Im non vegetarian, and My comfort meal is dal chawal with some achar and fried green chillies.

As for what I’m looking for, being an atheist is a must. I don’t have anything against religious people, but I’d like my partner to be an atheist as well. If you’re working, that’s a plus. I also appreciate someone who’s open minded and isn’t afraid to speak her mind.

Please don’t DM me if religion or caste plays an important role in your life or in choosing a partner. I don’t think we’d be compatible if your major life decisions are driven by expectations set by family, society, or tradition.

I’ve been on this sub for quite a while, and whenever I reach out to someone who posts a CF4CF, the conversation usually dies after a day or two with no explanation.

If you’re not interested, just say so. A simple, I don’t think we’re a match or I’m not interested, is completely fine. Ghosting just leaves the other person confused, and wondering if they should wait or move on.

The childfree dating pool is already very small. If someone reaches out, it’s because they’re genuinely hopeful. It takes a few seconds and gives the other person the closure they deserve.

Does anyone else experience this? Or is it just me who’s getting ghosted?

I know time heals all type of wounds, but what to do in meantime? At this point it just responsibilities that’s keeping me alive