Some of us get limerent because of this kind of behavior from our LO. It's about how men play you by using ambiguity. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ymiuGjnR7dU
Before you ever know what hit you, you're hooked and stuck waiting for them to come back around.
update edit: I watched it twice, and he says: "inconsistent attention creates stronger attachment" -- There's the limerent hook.
I am watching a classic movie with Audrey Hepburn called "Sabrina." She definitely is limerent over William Holden. He doesn't know she has feelings and doesn't care or notice her (he's a player--hmmm). She becomes severely depressed and tries to kill herself because she's so hung up on him. He's all she thinks about. In the past, they called this condition "love sickness" but we know it's much deeper than that. Every time I see this movie, I feel everything she feels...deep sadness, self depreciation, longing for my LO.
All around me the room is in motion, but all I see is you.
Perhaps it’s just my eyes fixed on an irresistible target.
Everyone and everything surrounding me becomes a blur,
as I gaze at your reflection in the mirror.
I try to hide my glance, so you don’t know how much I watch you.
But sometimes I catch you looking at my reflection,
and our eyes meet in the mirror.
God it’s such a rush!
I wish you could see me the way I see you.
You are compelling and beautiful to watch as you move,
so virile and your voice is incredibly sexy.
I am so bewitched by you.