u/FashionedKillerQueen

How do I solve this problem with Sou_Japan?

I've got this problem with the seller Sou_Japan on Ebay. I'm in Poland, and I previously bought from them, shipping to me was no problem.

Now when I put my real address in, the site says they have no products for sale available, but when I put that I'm in the US they have all their usual stuff up there, all their products show up normally.

I want to buy from them, but how can I do this when I can't list my actual address on there?

Did any of you have the same problem? If so, how did you fix it?

I'm sorry if I made any mistakes, English isn't my first language 😅.

Will I be the asshole if from this point forward I say to my therapist I was raped?

I'm sorry, this is gonna be long.

So there are 3 people in this story. Me (21F) my aunt (F43) and the guy Seth (M57)

Before you judge all this, I need to say my aunt and I used to have very casual rations, having been to parties and drunk together on occasions, etc. She lives far away from me, we usually got to see each other only about 2 times a year. I was visiting her at her home and one Friday night I told her something like "*name* we gotta finally share a drink together before I go back home!", becouse on other nights she was usually going to work the next morning. At first she was hesitant, but after a longer moment she told me we're going to drink at the home of her old family friend, Seth. I knew the guy before, we met several times (as a matter of fact i remember he even once made a comment about the size of my breasts when I was 14) and I've got to admit, I was kinda into him (weird, I know, but I can't help that I like older men even though I hate it) and if he had offered it to me sober at that time, I would probably say yes. I knew he must like me a little too, at least from the way he looked at me.

So my aunt and I got into her car, drove to a shop, she bought a litre of vodka and we went to Seth's house.

I remember about halfway through the second bottle; everything is a blur, it's like watching a movie made of only fragments of material on the filming tape. Him touching my legs under the table, then darkness, warmth, the smell of another human body, pain.

Next thing I know I wake up next to him, naked. No contraception in sight. I remember I was shocked at what I had done, mainly becouse the age difference, now I realise it's also so much more. I went to the bathroom and when my aunt heard I'm not asleep she approached me and we went home. We agreed together we better not to tell anybody, but of course I was going to tell my best friend that I had just lost my virginity. My friend convinced me to tell my Mum and she convinced me to get the morging after pill (I was just going to see what would happen, becouse I thought I probably couldn't actually conceive given how old he is), thank God, of course a huge argument betweem my Mum and aunt happened. I still don't know how I managed to beg my mom into not giving this guy any shit, I just didn't want for all this to feel even more embarassing.

This happened almost a year ago, and I've been wondering all this time if I had been raped, becouse I was definetely too drunk to consent, I was probably barely lucid. What would you guys say? I don't have many people I can disguss this with, also I even know if I would be able to tell somenody else all this face - to - face.

I'm very sorry if I made anybody reading this feel disgusted, writing this certainly felt worse than I thought it would.

I'm sorry for any mistakes I might have made, English isn't my first language.

Yesterday, I roasted some vegetables (tomatoes, garlic onions, with some olive oil and chicken stock) in a deep dish in the oven, and I forgot to put it in the fridge.

I want to peel all the veggies, blend them to make tomato cream soup, but I'm worried there might be botulism in the garlic.

What do you all think?

I'm sorry if I made any mistakes, English isn't my first language.