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Also what they both did is fucked, but didn't want to include it in the title. But other than the soft spot, are there any wlw meet up spots left? Seems like a really rare occurrence these days here. Can't speak for other cities.

EDIT: I clearly didnt do enough research and I apologize for that. If you are reading this, I stress to read the comments before making a judgement.

I just recently got displaced from my job (laid off with small window to apply elsewhere internally). Tomorrow I am accepting a job that is 100% lateral with no additional pay (60k). Im 34. Almost everyone i know is making 80k+ and going to japan, owns a house, has equity and savings. I am not poor but I dont have a ton of money to save after rent, amenities, student loans, invisalign, and car repairs.

And I know this is neither here nor there but I am the only one who has lost their hair and I have tinnitus when neither of these have happened to them. Its just hard to not feel like a abject failure.