Misanthropy is the opposite of ethicalpetownership
If you have spent more than a day on Reddit, you have probably noticed that people absolutely love their pets. At the same time, you might have also noticed that there is a concerning amount of hatred towards humans accompanying that love.
When love turns into obsession, projection, or treating an animal like a substitute for human relationships, it stops being about what is ethical for the animal and your surrounding. Your surrounding being the most important part here.
It seems like a lot of people have forgotten that ethicalpetownership isn’t just a moral framework created by humans for the benefit of animals. Humans themselves are also part of the equation.
Leashing your dog isn’t something you do just for your dog or for wildlife. You do it for your fellow humans, for people with allergies, people who are afraid of dogs, those or us who simply don’t like them, and most importantly, to prevent your dog from causing harm or distress to others. So your four legged nanny doesn’t make the news for embarking on another toddler.
If you find yourself wishing that dogfree would disappear and you’re about two seconds away from typing an insult that could get your account permanently banned, allow me to introduce you a magic spell that can solve that without terminating your account: practice ethicalpetownership.
You don’t have to bother people, let your dog run up to strangers, or shove your dog in everyone’s face as though you’re attending some Family Guy cosplay convention. Similarly, you don’t need to invent twenty different scenarios explaining how the dog was supposedly “provoked” by the innocent little girl after a mauling. It’s not helpful, and frankly, it’s wildly inappropriate. Imagine doing the same thing with a burglar: No one wants you posting pictures of your favourite burglar and speculating about how the poor guy might have been “provoked” after the shop clerk ends up in the ICU.
Keeping your cat indoors, similarly, isn’t just about protecting wildlife. It’s also about respecting the people who live around you. Your neighbours shouldn’t have to spend hundreds on measures to keep your cat out of their yard, buy endless deterrents, or spend their evenings frantically sprinkling chili powder around the garden like they are seasoning a giant outdoor salad. Nor should they have to spend their days sticking forks in the ground. Their garden is not an outdoor cat buffet.
It’s not even limited to pets! Making shelters more ethical would benefit everyone who adopts from them. Better standards, more transparency, and more responsible practices would mean better outcomes for both animals and the people who take them home. And hey, no more subreddits dedicated to Mr. Worldwide would be an amazing side effect. As devastating as it might be to lose that brand of humour.
Another example is raw feeding. Not cooking your pet’s food can introduce risks that don’t stop at your front door, foodborne pathogens can also pose a risk to the people around you. I think we can all agree that avoiding the next COVID-20 would be a pretty solid addition to the list. Bonuspoints for the pet anti-vaxxers and “vets are secretly in Big Pet Food’s pocket” conspiracy theorists.
Being an ethical pet owner is not about overly loving animals, it is not about putting animals above humans or hating on them. Sometimes, the most ethical choice is not to have a pet at all. Sometimes, the right thing to do is not get an animal you desperately want because you know you can’t provide for it or because you “love” the way it looks.
The willingness to put what is right above what you want is what ethicalpetownership is all about. And that extends beyond the animal, it also means considering the needs, wellbeing, and boundaries of the people around you.