I'm struggling academically and financially. Should I drop out of college because of that, push through, or find another path to pursue?
I’m a freshman finishing my first year of college. I originally declared Business Administration, but I want to switch to Mechanical Engineering because I enjoy the technical, hands-on work.
I took precalc and English this semester (Spring 2026). Failed precalc and got a D+ in RHET, so I'm retaking them this summer semester. I was missing a lot of assignments and focusing too much on one class, which was Gen Chem I.
I told my parents, and they got mad at me for ruining their summer vacation, and that if I can't pass basic classes, I shouldn't pursue engineering.
For context, I have been paying for my own education, which is $6K a semester after aid. I have been working two jobs: an on-campus job and a babysitting job. I work around 40-60 hours a week, and I have to remain a full-time student to keep the on-campus job. I have a $3,200 loan at 18% and another $2,500 loan at 24.14% APR on top of the $6K in tuition and supplies.
I can't request for more financial aid because my family's income is too high, and my dad won't give me his Hazelwood Credits. My parents don't want to pay for my college unless I double major in business and computer science or data analytics and my first semester in college I get straight A's. Another thing is they don't want to cosign any loans for me, so that is why I have been getting high APR on my two loans.
Now I’m questioning whether I’m actually cut out for engineering or if I’m just trying to do too much at once. Part of me wants to drop out because I feel like I’m falling behind, no matter how hard I work.
I'm wondering if I should apply for the TEACH grant and teach for 4 years after I graduate to lessen the financial burden and focus more on my academics. Or maybe I should drop out and get an associates at a community college, try joining the ASME MET program, and just e a mechanical engineering technician. Those were a few ideas, but I'm at a loss right now.
Also, my parents are letting me stay with them, but they're asking if I can start paying them for rent and gas. I don't have my own car or insurance (my parents don't want me on their policy because it would increase their premium), so they have to drop me off every morning and pick me up. They're getting tired of me, but I have nowhere else to go from here.