u/Few-Possession-1884

I have been speaking with a woman for some time now whom I met through the arranged marriage process. She is incredibly honest and possesses all the qualities I am looking for in a life partner. We have established a very open line of communication.

Recently, while we were discussing health, she transparently shared that she has a vitiligo patch on her arm. She mentioned that she has had it since childhood and that it has remained completely unchanged since then.

Given how well we match, I am trying to decide whether to pursue this relationship.

Should I be concerned about this condition? Specifically, what are the chances of it spreading or being passed down to our future children? Can it spread to other body parts as well? I would appreciate advice on how to approach this

28-year-old North Indian Hindu male working in Bangalore. Open for relocating to NCR in future.

Physical Stature: 5'7" with a fair and confident personality.

Career & Finance: Highly ambitious "tech guy" with a professional income of over 70 LPA.

Interests: Passionate traveler, cafe enthusiast, and a lover of high-quality experiences and deep conversations.

Philosophy: A balanced mix of traditional roots and modern professional drive.

Partner Preferences

Values & Transparency: High importance placed on shared moral values and absolute transparency regarding one's history.

Looks: Decent looking, both of us should look good together.

Past Relationships: I never had any past and hence seeking a partner who has no physical past.

Career Alignment: Looking for a woman who is career-oriented.

Lifestyle: Someone who appreciates the "finer moments," enjoys traveling, and is ready for a life of growth and adventure.

Compatibility: Ideally someone with a similar cultural background who values the same blend of roots and ambition.

I'm 28M, a software engineer earning high end in lakhs. I've never been in a relationship or had a physical history by choice even though I had the opportunities.

Naturally, I'm looking for a working partner with no past.

​I feel like I'm struggling to find matches who align with this. Am I being too idealistic, or are there others out there who prioritized the same things? Would love to hear from men and women who are in (or were in) the same situation. How do you bring this up during the AM process?