Questioning my sexuality
Does anyone else seem to keep falling back into the sexuality limbo? I (26 woman) feel like i am constantly analyzing if i like women or men or any gender. In the past few years i have been questioning my sexuality and in the past year i (previously being „straight“) have had some experiences with women. In the meantime i even question if i like men at all and at some points i feel like i like no one and everyone at the same time haha. I dont even understand why i obsess over this so much, but i keep feeling like a fraud, like im doing smth and tricking everyone idk.. Ive been dating a girl for about two weeks and i was VERY excited and very attracted. After our first kiss i was like: Okay, im definitely not straight. But from the moment that i realized that we are actually not compatible at all as people and its not gonna work out ,i start feeling unsure again and thinking i dont like girls? idk why. Does anyone know why some of us obsess so much to somehow define our sexuality, even though its not necessary? And also do you experience this constant questioning?
It also doesnt help that attraction to women only started later in life for me and at the beginning it was very rare. I liked girls rarely from the age pf 20-24 and they were all very specific and masc. Only recently and especially after a few experiences i started to feel attraction way more frequently and not only to mascs but to a variety if ppl. Is it possible to not have felt attraction to girls as a teen but feeling it now?