u/FiftyShades4Love

Hi everyone, I’m 26F and my husband is 34M. We have a pretty good sex life. He loves giving me rimjobs and he’s really good at it. He does it passionately and deeply, and it feels amazing for me. I really want to return the favour and make him feel the same way because I love pleasuring him.

The problem is, I just can’t seem to do it properly on the bed. He’s asked me multiple times during sex to rim him, especially to lick him deeply, but I freeze or just give a few hesitant licks and stop.

I’ve only been able to do it properly once in the shower when everything was super clean and the water was running. That time felt natural. But on the bed, even though he keeps himself very clean (he showers daily and we both maintain good hygiene), something in my head stops me.

I genuinely want to get better at this.

Any tips on how to become comfortable giving rimjobs? Thanks!