u/Final-Olive-3078

After the breakup, I kept checking up on him not because I wanted him back, but I couldn't understand how he moved on so easily. At one point, I was even watching his stories without knowing him, just to avoid the awkwardness. I think I was looking for some sign it meant something to him too. Eventually, I realized it was only keeping me stuck. Letting go of that need to understand has been hard, but necessary to move on. Has anyone else gone through this phase of trying to make sense of it all? How did you finally stop checking and move forward?

I need some honest advice because I am overthinking this. One of my classmate used to be a good friend of mine. Out of nowhere, he stopped talking to me completely no arguments, no explanation. The I noticed he unfollowed me too, which honestly hurt more than I expected. I got curious may be a bit too much, so I started checking his stories anonymously just to see what was going on without making it obvious. That's when I saw he have been hanging out with someone I also used to be close with, we're not on a good terms anymore either. So now it feels like I've been just quietly replaced or cut off without any closure. I haven't reached out or broken no contact, but this whole situation is messing with my head. Do I confront him and ask what happened, or just accept it or move on without any answers?