u/Financial-Mango6867

Why did my Mom’s dog bite me?

Why did my Mom’s dog bite me?

So for context, my mom has a black lab and he’s about three years old. Me and my family are huge animal lovers. all my life I have had a cat and a dog. And I feel extremely comfortable around animals and this dog is no exception.

Last week I was at my mother’s house and everything was pretty normal, I’m cuddling with the dog. I’m taking him for a walk. I’m sneaking him snacks. I’m playing with him. I’m kissing and I’m hugging him. Everything was perfectly fine.

That night when I went to reach over him to grab my cell phone from the other side of the couch, he growled and bit my finger. I was in utter shock because it was completely out of nowhere and I’ve never been bitten by a dog before. Also five minutes before we were both cuddling on the couch and there was no issues.

I have no idea if this was like a territorial thing with him because he views me as a guest, but it completely came out of nowhere. I’ve also have reached over plenty of dogs in my life and never had anything like this happen.

To me if it was unprovoked and the next time I’m around him, I don’t want to have to be on eggshells, but can someone help me understand why he reacted this way to me?

u/Financial-Mango6867 — 7 days ago

I am a 35F and the man I am dating is 37M. We’ve been on and off the last few years because of miscommunication and this time around things have been a lot better for us.

Recently he has found out one of his siblings has cancer and a few other hardships have hit him. From my experience, he is not forth coming with his emotions when he feels overwhelmed. I assured him that I’m here if he needs me and when life gets hard he can lean on me not away from me. He apologized for being distant and assured me that everything is okay between the two of us. He just has a lot on his mind.

I want to be there for him, but how do I do that if he doesn’t always want to or doesn’t know how to express his emotions? His way of dealing with things is to bury himself with work or keep to himself.

I personally like to talk my feelings out but I want to respect the fact that just because that works for me it might not work for him. Any suggestions?

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