u/Financial-Owl-

Aita for wanting to tell my husband of two years that his half-sister has feelings for me. I am 26, my husband is 30, and we've been married for three years, 2years of pure happiness. I love and completely trust my husband. We've had no major issues, but I'm scared I'll ruin his relationship with his half-sister. This secret has been eating at me every time I look at him.

Here's some backstory: My husband's half-sister and I, both 26, have been best friends since we were 18. We went through high school and even college together. Our friendship is truly amazing. Since my now-husband is her half-brother, you could say I've known him for 8 years, too. I've been on some family vacations, but I always thought her brother was my type. 3 years ago, my now-husband was single, and I jokingly suggested that he and I should get together. She set us up but initially i was worried he wouldnt like the idea but to my surprise he agreed, and we hit it off right away.

We dated for a year, got engaged shortly after, and have now been married for 2 years. My sister-in-law is into women and I'm straight, so we've known about each other's relationships our whole lives. The other night, to celebrate me being newly married, we went out for drinks, and she told me she has feelings for me after she leaned in to kiss me. Since we're close, I kissed her back and then i pulled away.

I know I'm married and we shouldn't have done that, but I figured, since we're best friends and we always use to kiss sometimes as a sign of love but like a small peck every now and then so i thought why not? This was after my honeymoon. I asked her how long she had felt this way, and she said since I started dating brother. She told me she didn't say anything because she could tell I liked her brother over the years, but she realised she was inlove with me when i started dating her brother, i asked her why she didnt say anything during my year of dating her brother she responded with she supressed her feelings for me beacuse she was scared of ruining her relationship with me and her brother. We talked about it and decided to remain friends and think about the next steps in our friendship.

It's been a week, and I feel really weird about it. I don't want to ruin my husband's relationship with his half-sister and my friendship. I'm really confused about what to do.

AITA

Aita for wanting to tell my husband of two years that his half-sister has feelings for me. I am 26, my husband is 30, and we've been married for three years, 2years of pure happiness. I love and completely trust my husband. We've had no major issues, but I'm scared I'll ruin his relationship with his half-sister. This secret has been eating at me every time I look at him.

Here's some backstory: My husband's half-sister and I, both 26, have been best friends since we were 18. We went through high school and even college together. Our friendship is truly amazing. Since my now-husband is her half-brother, you could say I've known him for 8 years, too. I've been on some family vacations, but I always thought her brother was my type. 3 years ago, my now-husband was single, and I jokingly suggested that he and I should get together. She set us up but initially i was worried he wouldnt like the idea but to my surprise he agreed, and we hit it off right away.

We dated for a year, got engaged shortly after, and have now been married for 2 years. My sister-in-law is into women and I'm straight, so we've known about each other's relationships our whole lives. The other night, to celebrate me being newly married, we went out for drinks, and she told me she has feelings for me after she leaned in to kiss me. Since we're close, I kissed her back and then i pulled away.

I know I'm married and we shouldn't have done that, but I figured, since we're best friends and we always use to kiss sometimes as a sign of love but like a small peck every now and then so i thought why not? This was after my honeymoon. I asked her how long she had felt this way, and she said since I started dating brother. She told me she didn't say anything because she could tell I liked her brother over the years, but she realised she was inlove with me when i started dating her brother, i asked her why she didnt say anything during my year of dating her brother she responded with she supressed her feelings for me beacuse she was scared of ruining her relationship with me and her brother. We talked about it and decided to remain friends and think about the next steps in our friendship.

It's been a week, and I feel really weird about it. I don't want to ruin my husband's relationship with his half-sister and my friendship. I'm really confused about what to do.

AITA