u/FinancialLiving2395

Hello,

I wanted to ask something personal and see if anyone has experienced something similar.

I have very low libido. I rarely wake up with wet dreams — maybe once every couple of weeks — and I almost never feel sexual desire. I avoid looking at women or anything inappropriate, I live alone, and I basically have no interaction with girls in daily life.

I also live a healthy lifestyle: sports, decent nutrition, good habits, etc. But one thing worrying me is that my penis often looks “hidden” or smaller most of the time, especially when relaxed.

I’m starting to worry if these are signs of low testosterone or low libido, and whether this could affect me after marriage. Did things change for anyone once they got married and had a normal relationship with their wife? Or is this something I should get checked medically before marriage?

Would appreciate honest advice from brothers who have experience with this.

Salam brothers,

I wanted to ask something personal and see if anyone has experienced something similar.

I have very low libido. I rarely wake up with wet dreams — maybe once every couple of weeks — and I almost never feel sexual desire. I’m Muslim, I avoid looking at women or anything inappropriate, I live alone, and I basically have no interaction with girls in daily life.

I also live a healthy lifestyle: sports, decent nutrition, good habits, etc. But one thing worrying me is that my penis often looks “hidden” or smaller most of the time, especially when relaxed.

I’m starting to worry if these are signs of low testosterone or low libido, and whether this could affect me after marriage. Did things change for anyone once they got married and had a normal relationship with their wife? Or is this something I should get checked medically before marriage?

Would appreciate honest advice from brothers who have experience with this.