u/Fine-Broccoli3836

I’m a 27-year-old female from California and recently I’ve been feeling like I have no one to talk to. I am in a relationship however it feels like I bother him too much and also I don’t receive the emotional support I’m wanting. My friends are all super busy and I support them but I also feel neglected at times. I’ve always made time for them regardless of what was going on but now they don’t have time for me. I’m not trying to sound pitiful. I’m just putting a backstory into why I’m looking for someone who I can text about my day. I know this is crazy but I don’t know what else to do for me to get that human connection I’m looking for. I’m open to opinions and dm me if you are down for a virtual pen pal.

My (27F) has been with my (26M) boyfriend for a little over a year now and within that time he has changed his phones passcode over 5 times. We e had a very eventful first year filled with a lot of ups and downs. Good and bad times, fights, celebrations, etc. I need to know if this is something I should be concerned about or if I’m overthinking. He doesn’t tell me, I usually find out when he opens his phone and I notice it’s different. A little back information too, I have concerns because he has a friend who in the past has tried to get him to cheat on me and I found out he was taking my bf to clubs; my bf never told me and I found out through his other friend. Please help me I’m not sure if I’m just being crazy or if I have something to worry about.