Not normal
I’m just now, after one year, realizing that what happened to me wasn’t a normal break up. I dated someone for 3.5 and was deeply in love with them. Our relationship had some issues but overall it was very supportive and connected. We are two queer people and we were each other’s family. and we always said we’d be there for each other no matter what, even if we broke up. we said we would share the cat we got together.
over a 2 month period, because we lived together, they broke up with me, we moved out, and I never heard from them again. The reasons they gave me for the break up still don’t make sense. I feel like I was ghosted after 3.5 years by the love of my life.
I’m looking for some encouragement. If anyone is comfortable sharing comparable abandonment stories, it would really be helpful for me to know that I’m not alone and anyone else has dealt with something similar and got through it. How long did it take you? This has truly been the worst year of my life. And sometimes I feel like I’ll never get over this.