How do I make things interesting?
So me 20F and my girlfriend 24F (hehe can't believe I am actually dating someone) have been dating for about two months now and one thing I feel like isn't going well is intimacy.. cos it's both of our first relationships. Well it's my first relationship and it's her first relationship with a girl. So we are trying out stuff by watching ph videos but I feel like without toys there are only a handful of things we can do and don't get me wrong i don't mind then but uk something my mind gets distracted and I think abt dih 😭 whenever I see dih i get turned on and wet automatic which ikik is super wrong.. idk if i am overhyping dih in my mind but I feel like it would feel way better than fingers and getting eaten out. I asked her abt it cos she has been with a guy before she told me that the sexual pleasure is amplified by how much u love the other person so since she didn't love her ex that much she didn't find dih as pleasurable as when I do something.. which made me sad cos does that mean i don't love her enough??
Pls give me advice...