u/Finkin_Fark

Hey everyone,

As a new learning driver, my ultimate aim is to be a safe driver for other Mumbaikar's rather than a fast driver or a flashy skill set driver .

I am currently on day 5 of learning how to drive, and honestly, it’s been a trial by fire. Because I live in Andheri, there is no such thing as an empty road or an empty parking lot to practice the basics. I hired a personal trainer who brings his car, so I'm learning directly in bumper-to-bumper traffic.

Today, I had my first majorly embarrassing moment I stalled the car right at a busy signal. The instant symphony of aggressive honking behind me made me completely panic.

I’m feeling pretty discouraged today, so I wanted to ask: What was your journey like when you were learning to drive?

How did you deal with the initial anxiety and pressure from other drivers?

How long did it take for muscle memory to kick in so you stopped stalling?

I came across a really disturbing video about the child begging racket operating across Maharashtra, and I think more people need to see it.

The video explains:

• How organized begging networks operate
• How children are controlled and exploited
• How much money a child beggar can earn daily for handlers
• Where the money actually goes
• What happens to many of these children behind the scenes

A lot of us give money out of sympathy, but the video argues that direct cash often strengthens the exploitation cycle instead of helping the child.

It’s honestly eye-opening and difficult to watch at times, but important.

Yes, we all have needs: the need to be heard and the need to listen. My DMs are open for everyone who just want to say hi or whisper a secret without revealing their identity without the fear of being judged and to feel good or even connect and make friends across the world.

I'd appreciate a few words of advice, realizations and challenges you'd like to share.