u/FirefighterMaximum95

i broke up with my girlfriend around 4 3 weeks now and we didnt have any contact at all till a few days ago and i found out that shes interested in someone else and it really did hurt but at the same time i still feel attached and kind of responsible for her? like i still wanna take care of her as much as i can and i just dont know if this is healthy or not or like being friends with an ex is a good idea in the first place?

so basically not long ago my ex told me she lost feelings and wanted to break up and i did respect it and didn't want to remove her or cut her off because i still care a lot about her, yesterday we met and talked and kinda cleared things out and became kind of friends? today i pushed it asking plenty of times if she got feelings for someone else and this pushed her away and i don't know how i make things up for her, i dmed her again saying sorry today but she just didn't reply an i'm kind of lost and i still want to keep her around and make things right