u/First-Security-2782

I [20F] am aromatic and asexual, and in a relationship with 19NB. I feel conflicted and would appreciate someone to talk to

I [20F] am asexual and aromantic and have been in a relationship with my partner [19NB] for over a year.

I do enjoy being in a relationship but im worried that im not percieving my relationship properly because of my identity. Theres a lot of things that I dont know are normal or not in a relationship and honestly i dont have anyone to talk to about it, and the fact that Im asexual and aromantic i have a hard time feeling like anyone will be able to understand where im coming from or what im trying to understand.

I honestly just feel conflicted sometimes if my partner actually loves me, and like things I should be expecting from a partner.

I honestly just dont know where to go for this, and i am very unfamiliar with reddit and my posts keep getting removed.

Who can i talk to for clarity or where can i find it?​

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u/First-Security-2782 — 1 month ago

I [20F] am asexual and aromantic and would appreciate a birds eye view on my relationship

I [20F] am asexual and aromantic and have been in a relationship with my partner [19NB] for over a year.

I do enjoy being in a relationship but im worried that im not percieving my relationship properly because of my identity. Theres a lot of things that I dont know are normal or not in a relationship and honestly i dont have anyone to talk to about it, and the fact that Im asexual and aromantic i have a hard time feeling like anyone will be able to understand where im coming from or what im trying to understand.

I honestly just feel conflicted sometimes if my partner actually loves me, and like things I should be expecting from a partner. I would really prefer like being able to dm someone if thats possible

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u/First-Security-2782 — 1 month ago