u/FirstCuriosity

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Never been able to orgasm

I'm a 24F and a late bloomer. I've had a decently high libido since I was 18 and have been masturbating a lot since with vibrators, dildos, fingers, pillows, shower heads. I experimented a lot but never been able to actually orgasm. Overall I find clitoral stimulation not that great, I quickly get overstimulated and have to stop otherwise it starts hurting. I've found penetration a lot more pleasurable but not orgasm causing. I lost my virginity quite late and I thought that with a partner maybe I'd be finally able to orgasm but nope. I love sex with him, he's great but no matter what he does it's the same when it comes to orgasming as when I'm alone. On one hand it doesn't bother me because I find sex still fun, on the other I'm unable to finish and just get more turned on by each round instead of winding down. I've been relaxed when I'm masturbating and having sex, not focused on finishing but would like to experience it sometimes at least :((

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u/FirstCuriosity — 8 days ago

I have gained about 10 kg and so I've gone from nearly flat to actual boobs and I'm so confused about sizing. Each calculator gives me something else

I've gone from no bra fitting me because I was nearly flat to definitely visible boobs and for the love of god I can't figure out my bra size. The ABTF calculator gives me some ridiculous size that I'll never find in stores.

My measurements are:

Loose underbust: 76

Snug underbust: 75

Tight underbust: 74

Standing bust: 87

Leaning bust: 90

Lying bust: 89

I get something like 65E/F which is absolutely unfindable here.

So far I've been wearing 75B but it just doesn't fit right

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u/FirstCuriosity — 16 days ago