My girlfriend [24F] and I [25F] planning to getting married next year, but she is saying doesn't want to move out of Chennai
Hi I[25M] (fixed)am planning to getting married next year with my girlfriend our families agreed but the girl is saying she doesn't want to move out of Chennai, I said I can stay for few years with u but that's not a permanent decision if u or I get better job opportunities anywhere in the world we should be ready to move in.
But she is insisting to stay only in Chennai, is that a red flag ? She is Sweet but egoistic and sometimes she feels she is only right I am not sure what I should do, I didn't have any physical relationship with her I am old school, plus she says don't tell ur mother what I am saying but I don't say anything I just tell her filtered talks and mostly non private things and my mother tell her mother they both are in good terms, but she doesn't tell her mother and when she hears anything from her mother she gets angry
Now she just says good morning and good night nothing else no talk no attempts I tried several times to talk, she just replies me haan acha ok nothing else I get frustrated.
I told her I won't even come to Chennai then she said go on tell ur parents and my parents do whatever u want to do....
What should I do I am not sure any advice? The girl is good and good nature but she takes in her ego once it hits her ego or she keeps that grudge...