I filed a formal grievance with my Medicare Advantage plan. What happens next?

I've been dealing with repeated SNF coverage terminations for my mom under Aetna Medicare Advantage. After going through multiple expedited appeals, I filed a formal grievance with Aetna about the broader handling of the coverage terminations and discharge process.

Aetna has now contacted me about the grievance, and I'm wondering what to expect from here.

For anyone who has been through the Medicare Advantage grievance process, what happened after the plan acknowledged or contacted you about the grievance? Did someone actually investigate the underlying issues and speak with you about them, or was the process mostly an internal review followed by a written response?

I'm not looking for predictions about the outcome. I'd just like to understand what the process typically looks like from this point forward.

Thanks — I've learned a lot from people here who have already navigated parts of this system.

reddit.com
u/Fit-Screen-9581 — 1 day ago
▲ 14 r/eldercare+1 crossposts

For families who hired caregivers through Care.com: What do you wish you'd asked candidates?

We're getting closer to bringing my mom home, and one of the remaining pieces is building out enough caregiver coverage.

I'm considering using care.com to find additional caregivers, and I'd really love to hear from families who've actually hired someone that way.

Obviously I'll ask about experience, availability, references, and background checks. What I'm more interested in are the not-so-obvious questions you learned to ask after actually having someone work in your home.

Was there anything you didn't think to ask that you really wish you had?

And if you found someone wonderful, was there anything about that person during the interaction that, looking back, was a particularly good sign?

Thanks! I'm learning that the practical advice from people who've already done this is usually the stuff I didn't know I needed.

u/Fit-Screen-9581 — 1 day ago

Update on my Aetna Medicare Advantage SNF appeals — and getting closer to home

Update on my Aetna Medicare Advantage SNF appeals — and getting closer to home

I wanted to come back with an update because several people here were incredibly generous with their time while I was trying to navigate my mom's SNF appeals.

Over the course of her SNF stay under Aetna Medicare Advantage, I successfully appealed five separate terminations of coverage. The sixth termination was upheld, as was the reconsideration. I still have the option of pursuing ALJ review on that last decision, so technically that piece isn't over yet.

When coverage terminated, my mom did not leave the SNF. She remained there and we began paying privately for her care. Two days after the coverage termination, the SNF sent her to the emergency department, and she was ultimately admitted to acute care.

She's had a longer hospital stay than we expected because of several medical issues, but we're now getting much closer to bringing her home.

I've also filed a formal grievance with Aetna and a complaint with Medicare regarding the broader handling of the repeated coverage terminations and discharge process.

In the meantime, I've shifted a lot of my energy toward figuring out what a safe home plan actually looks like. We have a hospital bed, home health is coming together, I'll have caregiver support, and I'm working on the remaining gaps in her home-based medical care.

Mostly, I wanted to come back and thank everyone who helped me understand this process. Five successful appeals gave my mom additional covered time when she needed it, and everything I learned here helped me ask better questions and make better decisions. We're not quite home yet, but we're getting there.

reddit.com
u/Fit-Screen-9581 — 1 day ago
▲ 10 r/stroke

A little update: We're getting closer to bringing Mom home

A little update: We're getting closer to bringing Mom home

I wanted to come back with a little update because so many people here have shared practical advice with me.

My mom had a severe stroke in April, and after acute care, inpatient rehab, and a long SNF stay, we're now getting much closer to having a real plan for bringing her home.

We have a hospital bed, I'm getting home health lined up, and I'll have caregiver support. I've also learned a lot about home-based primary care and other services that may help us care for someone who is homebound and currently bedbound.

There are still gaps in the plan, and I'm sure there are things I won't know I need until we're actually living it. But this feels much more doable than it did when I first started asking questions here.

Thank you to everyone who has shared your experience, practical tips, equipment suggestions, and all the little things you only learn by actually doing this. I've learned a lot from you. ❤️

reddit.com
u/Fit-Screen-9581 — 1 day ago

We're getting closer to bringing Mom home

We're getting closer to bringing Mom home

I wanted to come back with a little update because so many of you have shared helpful advice with me.

When I first started asking questions here, bringing my mom home after a long hospital/rehab/SNF journey felt pretty overwhelming. It still is, but the plan is starting to look like an actual plan.

We have a hospital bed now, I'm getting home health lined up, and I'll have caregiver help. I've also learned a lot about home-based primary care and some of the other services that may be available for someone who is homebound.

There are definitely still gaps to fill, and I'm sure I'll discover a few things I didn't know I needed until we actually get home. But I feel much closer than I did when I first started asking all of you for help.

Thank you to everyone who has taken the time to answer my questions and share what you've learned. A lot of your advice has gone directly onto my lists and into my planning. ❤️

reddit.com
u/Fit-Screen-9581 — 1 day ago
▲ 1 r/stroke

For stroke survivors and caregivers: Has anyone used home-based primary care for a homebound or bedbound loved one?

I'm hoping to learn from stroke survivors and caregivers who have experience with home-based primary care for a homebound or bedbound loved one.

I've recently learned that in some areas, physicians and nurse practitioners make home visits and can coordinate things like home lab draws, mobile imaging, medication management, and other medical care for patients who are unable to leave home easily.

If you've used this type of practice, I'd love to hear what your experience has been.

  • Did you usually see the same physician or nurse practitioner over time, or did different providers rotate?
  • How responsive were they when new medical issues came up?
  • Were they able to manage things like infections, dehydration that might require IV fluids, medication adjustments, or other non-emergency problems at home?
  • Did having home-based primary care reduce trips to the emergency department or outpatient appointments?
  • Looking back, is there anything you wish you'd known before choosing this model of care?

I'm simply trying to better understand what this looks like in real life and whether it made a meaningful difference for your family. Thank you for sharing your experiences.

reddit.com
u/Fit-Screen-9581 — 15 days ago

For families using home-based primary care: What has your experience been?

I'm hoping to learn more about home-based primary care from people who have firsthand experience with it.

I've recently learned that in some areas, primary care physicians and nurse practitioners make home visits and can coordinate things like home lab draws, mobile X-rays, medication management, and other services for homebound patients.

I'd love to understand what that model looks like in real life.

For those of you who have used home-based primary care:

  • Do you typically have an ongoing relationship with the same physician or nurse practitioner, or do different providers rotate through?
  • How responsive have they been when new medical issues arise?
  • Have they been able to manage things like infections, dehydration, medication changes, or other acute (but non-emergency) problems at home?
  • Has it reduced trips to the emergency department or physician's office?
  • Looking back, is there anything you wish you'd known before choosing a home-based primary care practice?

I'd really appreciate hearing about your experiences—both the positives and the challenges. Thank you!

reddit.com
u/Fit-Screen-9581 — 15 days ago

For families using home-based primary care: What has your experience been?`

I'm hoping to learn more about home-based primary care from people who have firsthand experience with it.

I've recently learned that in some areas, primary care physicians and nurse practitioners make home visits and can coordinate things like home lab draws, mobile X-rays, medication management, and other services for homebound patients.

I'd love to understand what that model looks like in real life.

For those of you who have used home-based primary care:

  • Do you typically have an ongoing relationship with the same physician or nurse practitioner, or do different providers rotate through?
  • How responsive have they been when new medical issues arise?
  • Have they been able to manage things like infections, dehydration, medication changes, or other acute (but non-emergency) problems at home?
  • Has it reduced trips to the emergency department or physician's office?
  • Looking back, is there anything you wish you'd known before choosing a home-based primary care practice?

I'd really appreciate hearing about your experiences—both the positives and the challenges. Thank you!

reddit.com
u/Fit-Screen-9581 — 15 days ago
▲ 2 r/stroke

For stroke survivors and caregivers: What made it possible to bring your loved one home safely?

For stroke survivors and caregivers: What made it possible to bring your loved one home safely?

I'm hoping to learn from people who have already been through this transition.

My mother is an 80-year-old stroke survivor, and our family's focus has shifted from navigating the SNF process to preparing for the safest possible transition home.

I'm not looking for medical advice about her specific situation. Instead, I'm hoping to learn from your experience.

If you brought home a loved one after a severe stroke:

  • What services made the biggest difference?
  • What did you discover about home health that you wish you'd known sooner?
  • Did you need to supplement home health with private-duty nursing, caregivers, or other community resources?
  • What equipment or home modifications turned out to be essential?
  • Looking back, what questions do you wish you'd asked before discharge?

I have a feeling there are important things I don't even know to ask yet, and I'd really appreciate learning from those of you who have already walked this path.

Thank you for sharing anything you think would help another caregiver prepare for this transition.

reddit.com
u/Fit-Screen-9581 — 15 days ago

What services made it possible to bring your medically complex parent home safely?

What services made it possible to bring your medically complex parent home safely?

I'm hoping to learn from people who have already navigated this transition.

A family member's stay in a skilled nursing facility is coming to an end, and I'm trying to understand what a realistic, medically supported home care plan looks like.

I'm not looking for advice about one specific situation. I'm hoping to learn what combinations of services people have actually used.

For those of you who brought home a parent with significant medical needs:

  • What services ended up being essential?
  • What surprised you about what Medicare home health could or couldn't provide?
  • Did you supplement with private-duty nursing or other services?
  • What resources or referrals turned out to be invaluable?
  • Looking back, what do you wish you'd known before discharge?

I'm trying to become a better-informed caregiver and would appreciate learning from your experience.

reddit.com
u/Fit-Screen-9581 — 15 days ago

For social workers and case managers: How does discharge planning generally work for medically complex patients going home?

I'm trying to better understand the discharge planning process from a systems perspective.

A family member's SNF stay is ending, and the experience has made me realize how little I understand about how medically complex patients are transitioned safely from a facility to home.

I'm not asking for advice about a specific patient or whether a particular discharge is appropriate. Instead, I'm hoping to better understand how the process generally works.

For example:

  • What services are commonly available beyond standard Medicare home health?
  • How are private-duty nursing, home health, physician follow-up, and other services typically coordinated?
  • Are there community resources that families often don't know to ask about?
  • From your perspective, what information or resources do families most often wish they'd known before discharge?

I'm simply trying to understand the discharge planning process and the kinds of services that may exist so I can be a better-informed caregiver. Thank you for sharing any general insights from your professional experience.

reddit.com
u/Fit-Screen-9581 — 15 days ago

What do you wish you'd known before bringing a medically complex parent home from a SNF?

What do you wish you'd known before bringing an aging parent home from rehab or a SNF?

I'm an adult daughter trying to prepare for my mom's discharge after a long stay in a skilled nursing facility following a severe stroke.

I'm no longer looking for advice about Medicare appeals. Instead, I'm trying to understand how families make the transition home safely when a parent still has significant medical needs.

What services ended up being the most helpful? Did you use home health, private-duty nursing, private caregivers, or something else? Who helped you coordinate everything?

Most of all, what do you wish someone had told you before your parent came home?

I have a feeling there are questions I don't even know to ask yet, and I'd really appreciate learning from people who've been through this.

reddit.com
u/Fit-Screen-9581 — 15 days ago

How did you build a medically safe plan to bring your loved one home from a SNF?

My mother's Medicare SNF appeals have now run their course, so I'm trying to shift my focus from fighting over coverage to understanding how to make it medically safe to bring her home.

She's an 80-year-old stroke survivor with ongoing medical complexity. I understand that Medicare home health provides intermittent nursing and therapy visits, but I don't know what happens when those visits aren't enough.

How did you actually build a safe home care plan?

For example:

  • Did you combine Medicare home health with private-duty nursing or caregivers?
  • Can physicians arrange recurring home lab draws for things like kidney function or electrolytes?
  • Who helped coordinate all of these services?
  • What services did you discover that you didn't even know existed before discharge?

I'm not really looking for insurance advice anymore. I'm trying to understand what a realistic, medically supported home plan looks like and what questions I should be asking before my mother leaves the facility.

If you've cared for a medically complex parent or spouse, I'd be grateful for any advice or lessons you learned along the way. I have a feeling there are questions I don't even know to ask yet.

reddit.com
u/Fit-Screen-9581 — 15 days ago

Has anyone had a Medicare Advantage SNF appeal denied based on "no improvement" or a "new baseline"?

I'm trying to understand whether others have encountered reasoning like this in a Medicare Advantage skilled nursing facility appeal.

In my mother's second-level reconsideration, the physician reviewer reportedly concluded that she had:

  • "no meaningful progression,"
  • "no improvement in over two months," and
  • had reached a "new baseline."

Has anyone else received a denial using similar language?

If so:

  • How did you respond?
  • Did you raise the Medicare maintenance standard on appeal?
  • Was that issue addressed by the reviewer or an ALJ?
  • Did you ultimately prevail?

I'm interested in hearing firsthand experiences from anyone who has dealt with similar language in a Medicare SNF appeal.

reddit.com
u/Fit-Screen-9581 — 16 days ago

Has anyone gone through an ALJ appeal after a Medicare Advantage SNF denial?

My mother's second-level reconsideration for continued skilled nursing facility coverage was denied today under Aetna Medicare Advantage.

I'm preparing for the Administrative Law Judge (ALJ) appeal and would appreciate hearing from anyone who has actually been through this process.

I'd especially like to know:

  • What was the filing process like?
  • How long did it take to get a hearing?
  • Were you able to submit additional medical records after filing?
  • Did the ALJ focus primarily on the medical evidence, procedural issues, or both?
  • If your case involved Aetna, were there any insurer-specific issues or lessons you learned?

I'm simply trying to understand the process from people who have firsthand experience. Thank you.

reddit.com
u/Fit-Screen-9581 — 16 days ago

Has anyone had a Medicare Advantage SNF appeal proceed without receiving a DENC?

I'm representing my mother in a Medicare Advantage expedited appeal after termination of skilled nursing facility coverage.

We timely appealed after receiving the Notice of Medicare Non-Coverage (NOMNC), but we never received the required Detailed Explanation of Non-Coverage (DENC), despite requesting it multiple times. The BFCC-QIO issued its first-level decision anyway.

Has anyone else experienced:

  • No DENC being provided at all?
  • A DENC that arrived after the appeal decision?
  • A QIO proceeding without the DENC?
  • A successful complaint to CMS or another agency about the missing DENC?

I'm not asking whether we should win the appeal. I'm trying to find anyone who has firsthand experience with a missing DENC and what happened afterward.

Thank you.

reddit.com
u/Fit-Screen-9581 — 16 days ago