u/Fit-Song8254

Especially after waking up every morning.

This friend is the man I'm seeing on and off for almost 4 years. I freaked out the first time I saw his chart, and still is.

He has 7 other siblings; 5 sisters and 1 brother.
In his 30s, but his dad still texts and calls him asking about his whereabouts, what he's doing with friends etc. He has like 10 different friend groups for different activities (love him for that), I don't know much about his mom, but he likes her better than his dad.

When he's with me he's affectionate, even wants to merge at times, and then completely alienated himself the next. He hates phone calls. Also a weed dependant because he feels gloomy without it and has trouble sleeping at night.

I never know whatever happened inside his head. Is it about trust and betrayal? Man is traumatised but only God knows what.

Took me months to convince him I didn't see anyone other than him, but after a while I left because of his erratic behaviours, but he asked me to come back, so I did, a year later. Having a time of our life for 3 months only for him to retreat back into his shells and doesn't want to see me for now— "I don't know what I want" (it's been 2 months)

My friends say it's a waste of time, and I know that. But men I dated always had an inferiority complex, and never honest (all 5 of them) He is the only one who's always honest, confident and hella smart. The kind of person I always keep in my life.

I just want to know, will things ever get easy for him?

EDIT: TITLE SECONDARY PROGRESSION AND NATAL

Came across this post on Twitter, immediately looked it up on GMaps. Everything is mouth watering fr. Bro istg, everyday you keep finding good stuff in KL.