u/FitResearcher2865

Hello everyone, I'm a 22-year-old male who's about to finish university. I'm doing business. I've got a plan for my life and it's a very risky plan. And I'm trying to move forward with intention. And I'm really, really stuck in a frustrating situation. My phone just broke and I generally cannot afford to fix it. I'm already balancing money between like buying basic groceries and daily survival stuff.

So even something small like this becomes like a huge major problem. And this situation pushed me into a moral dilemma. I've always tried to be a good person. I still, I still like to believe I am honest, but, and I don't necessarily cut corners.

lately I've been questioning whether that mindset is actually helping me or it's holding me back. For example, there's a part of the property where I stay in my dorm that isn't like well maintained. It's dirty, but it's not terrible. But it could, it could be improved. I caught myself thinking of taking a photo. And especially when you think the condition using like AI to make it more dirty in order for me to make it look worse, just so I could like offer to fix it and get paid by the landlord.

I haven't done it, but the fact I even considered it is the one what's bothering me. It made me realize something. It often feels like people who bend the rules, stretch the truth, or even act more opportunistically get far, far ahead of other people in life. Meanwhile, sticking to being a good person sometimes just feels like I'm just limiting myself.

So my question is, where do I draw the line between integrity and practicality? Is being a consistent, big, good person actually an advantage? What are the advantages of this? Or does it sometimes prevent you from, like, taking opportunities that others would take without even a ounce of hesitation? And how do you even, like, deal with the internal conflict, especially when you are under financial pressure and just trying to get by? I'm not trying to justify being a bad person here. I'm just trying to understand whether my current mindset is sustainable or I just need to rethink what's being a good person, especially in the world. And I would really appreciate it. Your perspective from people who faced similar situations. Thanks.

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