u/Fit_Cinnamoncrunch

Let's be honest here. I wouldn't wanna add fancy words and lie on things. If anyone is interested do reach out.

Early thirties 177cm, have a job, being independent, own a house.

Teetotaler, doesn't smoke or any substance abuse.

I was asked out by handful of girls while at school and college. I may be like 3.5/10 in appearance. Wheatish skin colour, broader shoulders, small waist not bulky athletic looking.

I do take care of myself and workout.

Emotional intelligence - good listener, talkative to selective people reserved otherwise, ambivert, couldn't show emotions all of a sudden until I know the person well, never been in a relationship casual or serious, used to think dedicate to just 1 person for life however I never looked for one until now, empathetic, kind, speaks up and standup for others and myself, I don't justify things if it's my fault happily accept it- no shame in that.

Drawbacks - short tempered at times however calm 99% of time, like being peaceful, intentionally doesn't cause chaos, get along with anyone just fine, when I lie and can't even hold that for a day, I don't gossip or backbite not interested in others life or instagram stories.

What's left - Need a companion for life, upgrade vehicle, improve a little. I like to communicate clearly and expect same. Since I'm talkative I'll make friends easily, don't want kids, I like to have a pet dog.

Preference - I'm not perfect for sure I'm looking for same. Compatibility matters however not everything has to be perfect. If you take care of your health that's amazing!

Intrested ones DM.

Whenever I start conversation with someone I end up being friends with especially females then they become part the life as in like friend for life. Idk why this happens. I'm all in for friendship but, worst part is detachment then feeling that loosing a small part of ourselves.

Btw I have males friends too for life.

Especially when I start with romantic interest I'll be the one who they hold onto for advice and talk to. I can't deny the fact I'm good at having conversation usually.

Appearance wise I'm not that great it could be a fact. Does anyone went through same thing, what helped actually for you?

Also when I'm pursuing someone I can go for dates and stuff. I genuinely doesn't like to even touch them(if I'm not close) or have anything planned like to sleep with them(this no way) Doesn't even cross my mind as in real life.

I make a good company.

Have you been through same any advice