u/Flaky-Piece-7358

كبنت ما اريد يكون عندي اطفال لما افتح هالنقاش وية بنات بنفس عمري (٢٢ سنة) ٢ من "صديقاتي" كالولي حيتزوج عليج ترا.

مع العلم انه اذا ارتبط بشخص، اكيد راح اناقشه بهالموضوع واخلي يكون عنده علم واكدر اني اشرط بعقد الزواج ما يتخذ زوجة ثانية ومن هالأمور.

بس اريد أعرف وجهة نظركم انتوا عن الموضوع، لأن بصراحة جدًا انزعجت من طريقة كلامهم وأريد اعرف اذا اني تحسست بزيادة او لا، بأخذ بنظر الأعتبار انه خيار تابع الي اذا اريد يكون عندي اطفال لأن اني الي حيكون كل هالشي علية من مضاعفات وتربية والخ.

First of all, he's not my husband; this was a hypothetical conversation. When I said I don't want kids, they said he'll get a second wife then (I live in the Middle East, yes.)

Even IF he would, saying this to your FRIEND like there's nothing wrong with that and like you support that? Besides, isn't it ME who gets pregnant, and this is MY body, MY choice?

Anyways, what do you think about these kinds of friends? I am really frustrated especially since the two of them had the same opinion? I even feel like blocking them at this point. Just wanna know if I'm overreacting.

EDIT: Okay, thanks to the people who were respectful in the comments, the other ones, I'm NOT asking for relationship advice, I am ranting about my FRIENDS since this subreddit is clearly about FRIENDSHIPS. Thank you.

So, I'm writing a romantasy, and basically, there's a 5-year time jump, but I'm not sure if some readers will hate it or if it's the wrong decision.

Basically, my character will move to another city, establish her life, and then a 5-year time jump will happen after that. How do you think writing this will be considered "bad" and how to avoid it?

It's been a week since I watched the movie, and I can't stop thinking about him tbh, anyone shifting for him?

Also, it's a fame dr as well, and I feel like it's the most dr I'm connected to at the moment.

So, first of all, we've been really good friends for a few weeks, sharing many secrets with each other, and helping one another a lot. All I remember is me helping them at every chance I get, because that's just my love language with my loved ones.

So, 2 of the girls, their exes were bi/gay and I eventually told them that I'm bi too. Mind you, one of them stayed with that ex until HE broke up with her.

Long story short, they started being distant and avoidant and dry etc, and when I asked why they were being like this towards me, one of them told me because they took it "personally" lol.

The thing is, I never flirted with a girl before, I told them that I'm NOT attracted to my "friends", and they KNOW that my crush is literally a guy. When I told her that, she said that's not what she meant and that they just took it personally.

Like how else personally? Lol.

Anyways, I started distancing myself from them because I didn't do anything wrong to them and I was nothing but a helpful understanding friend in the group, if they'd be bitches without me hurting anyone, I don't think it's my problem. I'm not even regretting saying that, it showed me how shallow that friendship really was.

What do you think of a situation like this?