u/Flaky-Raspberry-7554

Me 18/F and my boyfriend 18/M have been dating for around year and a bit now. I don’t want to have sex and have no interest in it and don’t know when i will and i don’t want children in the future . He wants both of those things and we have spoken about it and it ended up with if i can’t sacrifice having sex with him then it can result in a break up. as he says he has given up a lot for me ( can’t say on here) but it’s a whole different topic (not sure how to explain) I have thought about it and i think me and him are not compatible due to me and him wanting different things in life .I still love him but the spark is gone. can someone give me advice on what to do?

Me(18F) and my boyfriend 18M have been together for a year. I am a virgin, he is not. i have always said i have no interest in sex whatsoever, it just does not appeal to me.
My boyfriend is upset and worried that i don’t have attraction to him due to me not wanting/initiating sex. I’m not sure if it’s because im asexual or just scared.
It’s effecting our relationship to the point where he said he will break up due to having no sex. What should i do? Should i just tell him i can’t give him what he wants..?