u/FlashyIndependence96

Do not let women infiltrate this subreddit

I saw a post made by a woman and as usually she's ill intentioned and has ZERO clue what it's like to date as a man in the current landscape. Let's not tolerate women doing their shit in this subreddit, ban them as soon as possible.

Because once they infiltrate it, they post their opinions based on their reality of having thousands of men on dating apps and always try to discredit men for their reality. Kick them out do not let women in this subreddit.

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u/FlashyIndependence96 — 4 days ago

My experience with the best cities to get women from dating apps

I ran an experiment to find the easiest dating countries on earth

I set up tinder on hundreds of different countries and cities and I've noticed a clear difference in cities where it does well and it doesn't do so well. It's clear that some countries are better than others and here are the top ones that I've noticed that do the best

In fact, I'm thinking about compiling this into some sort of document or app to help others as I travel. Now, some countries do let you get many, many matches, hundreds even thousands of matches, but those countries will not make it easy for you to go out with these girls

What I mean by that is that you can talk and talk and talk and open new conversations but not a single girl is willing to go out with you. You're probably familiar with that. You just open conversation one after the other and as soon as you ask them out they disappear or they ghost you or they're not interested. Some countries are like that

And I absolutely hate it because it's blue balling you in new ways. And there are countries where you can get a few matches, but those matches are very willing to go out with you

So match quality is super important and here's the places where I found the best match quality where girls are willing to go out they don't waste your time, they don't require thousands of messages and endless dates to escalate further

Here's the list (from my personal experience, yours may be different):

  1. Philippines. It's crazy how many matches I get and how willing are the girls to go out. Yes there are time wasters but no other place on earth gets me as many women that won't waste your time.

  2. Brazil. Not every city. Rio de janeiro and fortaleza are the only places where I got decent matches willing to go out but the quality of the girls is amazing it's heaven

  3. Dominican Republic. Specifically santo domingo if you want real connections. If you want to get the most girls, go to puerto plata and sosua but you'll have to drop a few dollars

  4. Thailand. Still a place where you get tons of matches and girls willing to go out as long as you look good. The girls are nice and the country is nicer

  5. Peru. This is dating app heaven. 98% of the girls don't look good. But the 2% (and it's a huge number) will be willing to go out and go for what you want. It's a fact that you'll get so many matches

  6. Mexico. Ciudad de mexico is great so many options and girls may require one or two dates but they are good looking and so passionate, few timewasters

  7. Vietnam. Very good looking girls it still works you just gotta try in the main cities and you'll be able to go out with several new girls every single week

  8. Guatemala. Very submissive girls. They are down for whatever and lots and lots of matches willing to go out quick.

  9. Nicaragua. Amazing place. Very little competition so you'll clean up and meet almost a new girl every day

  10. Cambodia. Great for dating online you will find yourself overwhelmed with the many matches although they are lower quality looks wise

That's my personal ranking from experience where I tried to balance girls that look good with match quality. Because it doesn't matter if the girls are models if they are difficult or extremely demanding

In any case I'll keep travelling and keep you guys updated on new countries and my experiences dating in them. I'm looking forward to marry a great girl but it may take a while until I find her

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u/FlashyIndependence96 — 15 days ago

Don't look for the easiest locations and rather focus on where your ideal woman is If you prefer women a specific way, you should go to those countries

The truth is most men just travel for the easiness and the abundance they get for just being higher income or whatever and that's a problem because eventually you will want to marry and why spend your entire 20s and maybe 30s playing that game, where you're not making kids you're not forming a family, because maybe you don't like the local population as much as maybe your native nation or maybe you prefer women of a certain look and certain features and maybe the food and the culture and the character those things need to be taken into consideration.

You should travel to places where those things are just like you want them.

Now of course men can do whatever they want but I urge you to focus on countries where you are likely to find women that look like you want them, that act like you want them and have a specific type of energy that you are attracted to.

And I focus on looks because it really determines how your kids will look like, how they will be raised, the people around them. All these things are extremely important and I think you should place way more importance to that than just "let me go to the cheapest and easiest location" because that's a losing game. You are not going to end up with the woman of your dreams by going the easier route.

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u/FlashyIndependence96 — 18 days ago