u/Flat_Jellyfish4977

Hey there, i'm 17, partners 18 and theyre 8 weeks! I'm so excited, and we're both reallt happt to be starting a family, a life together and a future. (Weve been living together 2 years already). The main problem is, we lost our jobs probably a week and a half after we found out. Had issues with the bio dad too (i'm trans), but i think that problem has resolved itself. Weve had so much stress so early and my partner has already had miscarriages in the past, so both of us are really cautious and mildly terrified of the worst. Theyve also already started to experience bad nausea, fatigue, mad diet changes. The money situation isn't great, theyve already managed to find a cover job, and i've gotten interested from a place (but i'm a chef and they're unsure on the legality of a 17 yr old in the kitchen). But i'm endlessly scared on whether or not it'll keep, so impatient already i jusy can't wait until baby gets to a point where they can live outside the womb, and so worried ahout out financial crisis. I know there is supportout there, support from the government and council that we can apply for but the overwhelming reality is so scary. We're both excited to be parents, I'm so happy on the outlook it has given me for our future (this was a happt accodent) but terrified of all the things that cojld go wrong. Is this jusy all part of it, is there anything i can do to help out our situation/my mental state/my partners physical and mental well-being?

Hi this is a very complex situation and I honestly feel like this may be a original experience. I, a trans masc 17, and my partner, 18, have hit many rough patches this year, which we have now managed to work through as a couple. We've been dating two years, wirh rhem moved in from aout 3 months into it. Our relationship was reallt tested by external forces at the beginning of the year which coincided with the "open" relationship we had at the time. It is still a touchy subject as it was not something I was thrilled about, though I did have a very much smaller and more insignificant sexual relationship with the same person they were at the time. The affair ended amicably (though some sensual stuff remained happening with the both of us and this person). Following that, tjey havr realised rheyre pregnant. And at first, the idea was not a possibility, but I'm really starting to think about it. They already seem pretty attatched to the idea, byt said rhey wouldnt wsnt it wirhout me as the dad. I would have full parental rights over the biological father, and wojld start my full time role of being a dad. I'm terrified but I really am starting to wsnt that future, and it seems possible. Scary but possible. While I am not asking reddit to devide for me, some advice wojld be amazing, if anyone has any thoughts