u/Flimsy-Wolverine-539

M23 F22 future plans

Me (F22) and my bf(M23) have been living together for more than a year now i his country Australia.
I am from Latin America and we met while traveling, we’ve been together for almost 3 years now, and our relationship doesn’t lack love at all, we absolutely love each other. We have a great connection and we often express how we couldn’t have better partners than us.
But I only have 2 years left in this country and I expressed my desire to go live with my family in my own country, he agreed to do the same sacrifice but one day when we decide to have kids he’d like to stay in Australia.
We try not to talk about it much, as we both get very emotional and distressed by the possibility of having to break up over diferences on the future.
We love each other and we say we’ll find a way, but I don’t wanna be resenting him for making me stay, and I don’t wanna keep being in a place where I don’t like or feel great.
Australia is good but I fear the cultural differences are too big for me, I spend the whole year just waiting to go back to my country and language.
Ps: I participate on groups of my home country and I am engaged on community stuff but I still don’t consider Australia home, its more like a temporary place.
Any tips on this situation?

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u/Flimsy-Wolverine-539 — 2 days ago

Me (22F) and my boyfriend (M23), met while traveling, fell in love hard and we’ve never felt this connection to anyone before. We get each other and after 2.5 years together we can read each other’s minds. We have so much fun, and we recently just moved into a place in a great location of the city. We go out on weekly dates, we cook for each other, we talk all the time, and when we’re off to work, we get home and we instantly come hug each other.
I’m living the best moment of my relationship and my libido has never been this low…idk what’s wrong. I’m still very attracted to him, but somehow sex is not going through my mind.
I have endometriosis and it’s just shit, I’m unfortunately one of those really bad chronic cases, and I get so much support from my partner. On top of that, I have strong PMDD, which is almost like being bipolar, except it’s not random moments in life. I change into 2 different people every month, just because of how strong my hormones hit my brain.
I’ve been having a hard time mentally, not gonna lie. I’ve been doing therapy for 9 years, and taking meds for about 1.5 years to help with how my endometriosis and PMDD affects my brain.

It’s embarrassing to talk to people about it, I’m not unhappy and he’s just such a great partner. I think I’m the problem but I wanna fix it. I just don’t know how. What coulda it be? Why is my libido low?

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u/Flimsy-Wolverine-539 — 18 days ago

We met while traveling, we fell in love hard and I’ve never felt this connection to anyone before. We get each other and after 3 years of relationship we can read each other’s minds. We have so much fun together, we recently just moved in to a place in a great location of the city, we go out on dates weekly, we cook for each other, we talk all the time, and when we’re off to work, we get home and we instantly come hug each other.
I’m living the best moment of my relationship and my libido has never been this low…idk what’s wrong. I’m still attracted but somehow sex is not going through my mind.
I have endometriosis and it’s just shit, I’m unfortunately one of those really bad chronic cases, and I get so much support from my partner. And not only that, I have strong PMDD, which is almost like being bipolar, except it’s not random moments in life. I change into 2 different people every month, just because of how strong my hormones hit my brain.
I’ve been having a hard time mentally, not gonna lie. I’ve been doing therapy for 9 years, and taking meds for about 1.5 years to help with how my endometriosis and PMDD affects my brain.

Why could be wrong? Why is my libido low??

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u/Flimsy-Wolverine-539 — 18 days ago