Guilty over being pregnant with 2nd baby
This might sound ridiculous, but I have a 2 year old and found out I am pregnant (not planned, but we were planning on trying later this year). Even though it was only a few months before my intended timeline, it's taken me by surprise and I feel so GUILTY about the idea of having another baby before she turns 3.
I feel bad for my first who is in such a good routine atm and very attached to me and I can't imagine she would take this well at all? I've done every single bed time except for a handful since she was born, and when I'm around she wants me to do everything for her. I don't mind this at all now, but I worry how this will be when I also have to care for another younger baby?
I've also only been back to work for a year after mat leave and will be back for 1 year 7 months by the time I'm off again and I'm scared of the judgment at work.
Sorry for the long post. Looking for some reassurance from other parents when going from 1 to 2!