u/Floofy5267

I have subbed for a couple of years now and have never been designated a preferred sub am I just not a great sub?

In the beginning, when I started subbing, I was new to all of this, so I probably canceled more often. But for the last three years, I have rarely canceled. I follow lesson plans, help students wherever I can. But I’ve never been put on a preferred sub list or specifically asked back. I don’t know what I’m doing wrong. I always leave a note with my name and number.

I’ve also noticed that over the past two years, I don’t see many jobs from certain schools. I’ll get to a particular school, look at the sign-in sheet, and see that many teachers are out, but none of those jobs were posted on Frontline for me. All of those absences can’t realistically be covered only by preferred subs and building subs. I think I am being filtered out. What am I doing wrong?

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u/Floofy5267 — 1 day ago
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To all of those who design underwear and decide to put the tag in the perfect spot to constantly get stuck in between my cheeks and cause severe irritation, I hope both sides of your pillow are always warm.

Edit: no I did not crap myself, that's henna stain!!

Seriously, who decides to put a tag right in the center and decide to have it freely hanging to where it can constantly get stuck and cause irritation? If you want me to buy your product maybe not give me a tag that constantly gets stuck in my crack 24/7 and gives you a friction rash.

I prefer brands that either print/iron the information directly on the fabric OR secures both if not all sides of the tag so it's not floating freely.

Tags like this one in the photo create a friction point and constantly irritate my skin to the point that the pain is unbearable because of how sensitive the skin is back there.

Finding decent daily underwear as a woman is hard enough as is, but add trying to find one with tags that won't irritate your skin makes the search so much harder. It already sucks that a majority of women's underwear is a polyester blend and the only reason for that is because manufacturing companies spend less money on polyester than cotton. I understand that polyester is more durable than cotton, but it's not worth it if I'm going to constantly get swamp crotch.

Nothing is more annoying than thinking you're overheating because you're wearing too many layers only to find out that is your underwear that's making you overheat. I have fibromyalgia which makes this so much worse

This isn't just annoying, it gives me a painful rash.

Now I know what you're all thinking "just cut the tag off", but I personally like having the cleaning information and the product ID number on it so if I love it I can find it again later. Also, some of these brands make the seam that holds the tag so recessed that you will cut the tag into thousands of shreds and/or some of the seams that are holding the underwear itself together before you actually get the whole tag off.

I can't just cut the length of the tag off because that will leave behind the part that was sewn to the underwear and will still rub. That's why I cut the threads that hold the tag to the underwear.

Sorry for the long rant, but the frustration with this has been building up over the years and today I reached my boiling point.

TL;DR: Seriously, why put a tag in the perfect spot for it to get wedged in between my cheeks and give me rug burn every time I move? It's not just annoying it actually gives me pain because the skin is so sensitive back there and i end up needing to change. The printed/ironed on labels are so much better or tags that have both if not all sides sewn to the fabric so it's not floating freely.

Finding a decent daily underwear as a woman is hard enough as is, but when you add on the challenge of looking for underwear with a tag that won't give you rub burn it makes it so much harder than it needs to be.

u/29blue2001 — 7 days ago

Offered to sub during a period with no students and was told they didn’t need me, they then asked for me to sub for 6th hour during my prep hour

I picked up the attendance from the office and 30 minutes later they said someone else picked up coverage for 6th hour. Like the back and forth of oh we need you but then when I interacted they realized who I was. I am a young looking sub. I wouldn’t say I am a preferred sub but I have worked at this school frequently. I have autism and adhd so I am starting to think that maybe I just come off socially awkward. I have never gotten any complaints, but I feel like the office staff don’t really like me. Idk what I am doing wrong?

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u/Floofy5267 — 11 days ago

Need guidance with career options, have autism and ADHD. What are my options?

I am 29, have autism and adhd. It’s been very difficult finding a career due to my disabilities, what are my options?

I have a bachelors in biology. I could not land a job after that due to working memory issues and lack of experience. I went to college during Covid. Then tried dental hygiene school but couldn’t handle the stress and left it. Now working on masters degree in analytics at Georgia tech. I keep on seeing posts that data analysts are being replaced by AI. There have been a lot of layoffs in the tech industry. I just finished my second semester and am not really happy with the program itself as I don’t understand much. I am struggling in the classes. I probably won’t be a good data analyst. I work as a substitute teacher and direct care worker. And the person I care for will be moving so that source of income is slashed. Should I give up? Like is there hope for me?

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u/Floofy5267 — 14 days ago