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We Should Not Argue

IMHO: Why should we argue when everyone has their own reality? Arguing is like telling someone "what you see is not true. I am telling you the truth!"

We should share, listen actively and be open to understanding the other person's perspective, simply because we live in parallel realities.

In decision making, we can compromise. If someone is 80 and the other is 10, they can agree on 40 or 50. And this is a metaphor. But we should not argue.

The tension comes only when we try to overlap someone else's reality with our own.

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u/FlowerIndividual1562 — 22 hours ago
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What is your favorite creative project you've accomplished recently

What is one of your favorite creative projects that you've recently accomplished? What made it creative?

I'll go first. My favorite recent creative project is changing my closet gradually into a totally different style. What makes it creative is that I add pieces that I've never thought I would do to just see myself in a new way.

This picture is for inspiration purposes.

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u/FlowerIndividual1562 — 9 days ago