u/ForeverLonely2470

Years of sakht launda has killed my chances

I'll keep it simple.

Earlier was below average but now a hybrid athlete, I changed my gym shift. I have a particular section to myself in gym (unwritten rule). Two girls also attend at same time. I like one.

First three days : gossiping about me, not bad but just complementing my physique. Standing not far 4ft distance.

Waiting for me in gym parking.

I didn't talk neither show any reaction. Since you know new timing unknown crowd. Everyone knew one of them.

Kisi ki gf ho aur mai udta teer lelu

Then 15 days normal voh apne raaste Mai apne raaste, but same time. One time I had to use same machine that they were using. I asked how many sets left. The answer should be in numbers but she froze and after taking much time she said NO. And then left the machine empty so neither I used it nor did she.

Now since past 4 days. Both girls are doing exercise in close proximity to me and hogging my section. Yesterday she even dropped a plate on my foot but this time I froze, no reaction. Didn't even looked at her.

She is unable to talk to me because no-one talks to me.

I am unable to talk to her because I mind my own business and she's never alone.

Don't know should I talk? What should be the first initiation since both of us tend to freeze?

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u/ForeverLonely2470 — 1 day ago

29M from tier 2 city, what can I do?

About me: Born & brought up in the city. Earlier was in upper middle class now middle class. Kshatriya community, 5'6 athletic.

Works freelance webdev and real estate.

Most of the prospects we get are from referrals.

PROBLEMS

  1. No one shares biodata of the girl & bothers to read my biodata.

Directly comes to home to see me. Then after much talking tells us the girl is 17-19.

Out of 20 such prospects 15 are this.

  1. Never once seen a girl or her photo in this setup. It's one thing being rejected by a girl, but the family. Man that shit HURTS!

What Acquaintance's (girls) tell me about me:

  1. looks Gunda

  2. I will be having 2-3 girlfriends

  3. can't be controlled. Looks egoistic

In reality I am an introvert, going to the same gym since 6 yrs and never talked to anyone else other than the manager.

Haven't talked to a new person in 3 yrs.

What can I do?

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u/ForeverLonely2470 — 5 days ago