u/Formal-Limit-5332

LST: he moved in with me in my city in Sept because we were long distance but he has hated every second of it. Everyone other month I have had to bring up a serious convo of the vibes being off. He is scared of commitment and nervous of the “what if” we’re not meant to be together. Yesterday he finally verbalized that me moving to his city would not be the appropriate next move because he needs to figure out his own shit and why he can’t give 100%. The second he said that I closed off and shut down because it was what I needed to hear to finally feel like we’ve reached a dead end in our relationship. I can tell he was caught off guard.. but in my head I want this chapter to be closed and the best thing to do is minimal contact as possible