u/Formal-Pepper-7446

I held her naked in my arms as she slept. The next morning she asked for more sex, praised me endlessly, and asked me to make plans for more dates as I left.

I sent plans we had already discussed, and offered the logistics. I didn’t hear from her all week.

When I asked her what was going on, she told me I shouldn’t expect to be family level of priority.

I told her it made me feel anxious

She told me she doesn’t know what to do about that

I said I’m confused because she had expressed real feelings for me and had seen me for 2 months and had escalated all the intimacy herself

Now she’s calling me later and I’m terrified and I feel physically sick.

I held her naked in my arms as she slept. The next morning she asked for more sex, praised me endlessly, and asked me to make plans for more dates as I left.

I sent plans we had already discussed, and offered the logistics. I didn’t hear from her all week.

When I asked her what was going on, she told me I shouldn’t expect to be family level of priority.

I told her it made me feel anxious

She told me she doesn’t know what to do about that

I said I’m confused because she had expressed real feelings for me and had seen me for 2 months

Now she’s calling me later and I’m terrified and I feel physically sick.

We’ve had sex a few times now. And we have both given affirmations in person. Gonna be a little while until our next meet up, but I want to show my appreciation for our shared intimacy in the meantime

I’m concerned she is not going to meet my needs.

In person she is amazing, invested, and she initiated the first time we had sex. It would be a massive shame to let her go. I don’t want to do that

She travels for work often it seems. I don’t need tonnes of contact but particularly given sex has occurred, I find 3 days to be too long and the simplest check in, or simplest one line message would be enough for me

I’m concerned escalating my needs via text will push her away, and frankly I’m confused because she seems really invested in person

I’m actually quite upset and confused

Girl I’m seeing is amazing in person. She is passionate, and initiated sex. But, when she travels for work, she doesn’t reply back for 2 days. Even just a one line message would do me. I get being busy, but it could simply take 10 seconds.

Idk what to do. I don’t want to pressure her but I don’t want to be too afraid to express my feelings and needs. In person it’s amazing. Via text I feel forgotten, which I’m more sensitive to since the sex