u/Former-Lock1350

Supportive friend is now ghosting me

I came out to my str8 friend of 7yrs whom i called as my brother. For clarity -I have seen myself as Bi ever since i understood sexuality as a concept. So my friend,we call each other as bromo (brother from another mother), we've been close since 1st day of college. Always supported each other in relationships and everything. So i had this urge to come out to him. I mustered courage and told him, Dude I am bisexual!!! I'm attracted to both Guys and Girls ,more sexually in guys. He said,

'Bro,i always had this realisation, I knew u r into guys. I'll be ever Supportive, don't worry about anything. I support and understand you. Our friendship will always stay as always,We r brothers.'

But I now regret coming out to him ,the first person i came out to. He's giving very cold and blunt replies to my texts. I thought of him as my brother,but now i think that he was pretending to care ,he was just wirh me as he had no one.

It's been 2 months and he has not even initiated a text ,let go about asking my well being.

I always had this gut feeling that he won't support me. I was right.

I guess it's his loss not mine, he's lost a genuine person in me.

So guy's out there ,trust your gut feeling.It can never go wrong.

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u/Former-Lock1350 — 14 days ago
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Supportive friend is now ghosting me

I came out to my str8 friend of 7yrs whom i called as my brother. For clarity -I have seen myself as Bi ever since i understood sexuality as a concept. So my friend,we call each other as bromo (brother from another mother), we've been close since 1st day of college. Always supported each other in relationships and everything. So i had this urge to come out to him. I mustered courage and told him, Dude I am bisexual!!! I'm attracted to both Guys and Girls ,more sexually in guys. He said,

'Bro,i always had this realisation, I knew u r into guys. I'll be ever Supportive, don't worry about anything. I support and understand you. Our friendship will always stay as always,We r brothers.'

But I now regret coming out to him ,the first person i came out to. He's giving very cold and blunt replies to my texts. I thought of him as my brother,but now i think that he was pretending to care ,he was just wirh me as he had no one.

It's been 2 months and he has not even initiated a text ,let go about asking my well being.

I always had this gut feeling that he won't support me. I was right.

I guess it's his loss not mine, he's lost a genuine person in me.

So guy's out there ,trust your gut feeling.It can never go wrong.

reddit.com
u/Former-Lock1350 — 14 days ago