u/FormerCheesecake4233

how tf do those jirai girls from tiktok keep their rooms clean while being mentally ill

how tf do those jirai girls from tiktok keep their rooms clean while being mentally ill

My one room apartment is repulsive it's not even funny atp😭 I have a big pile of trash, pile of clean still-damp laundry on the floor, disgusting kitchen sink that's clogged with food waste, moldy bathroom, food rotting in the fridge, and more clutter. No matter how many times I fully clean my home it gets this bad again and it just might be the worst rn :(

u/FormerCheesecake4233 — 12 days ago
▲ 4 r/CPTSD

TW: misogyny and maybe sexual harrassment.

A friend told me he acted strange by saying misogynistic things in class when I missed that class and just reading her texts gave me flashbacks.

He would ramble about traditional values of how women must serve their fathers and then their husbands and would even ask some of the girls in class questions like "can you cook?" and when told no he'd say you'd end up alone as a crazy cat lady. The way I wouldn't have been able to talk back or escape the situation reminds me of my dad harassing me as a child when he gets drunk and violent.

Now I'm genuinely afraid of him. Things might get worse if I report him and nothing gets done and he says worse things because of it, and even if something gets done of it I might get called a crazy feminist. A part of me thinks it's just a "me-problem" and others probably just roll their eyes at him and forget about it while I'm here freaking out over it. I don't know what to do.

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u/FormerCheesecake4233 — 17 days ago