u/Foxalreadytaken

Hi,

I am a very begginer witch. I was wondering if I can perform a freezer spell for a situation, but I am unsure how to go about it. It is not for me but is affecting me too

So long story short, my mum's husband who's passed, left lots of debt on her name basically. He was an abuser and she managed to leave, but didn't got a chance to divorce him. They had joint mortgage loan. He stopped paying long ago, my mum didn't even knew. He gathered lots of debt. Anyway he passed, and now there 's bailiff on my mum, making her life difficult, asking to pay for his debt. They froze her bank account and they are taking quite a lot from her salary, leaving her in a lot of distress. My mum got a lawyer trying to negotiate on the sum they are taking but the lawyer is not helping and looks like he is lying. The actual bailiff, blocked my mum's number when she was trying to communicate. The house is still there, nobody lives there because my mum lives in her parents house with her disabled sister. She said to them a million times to sell the property and leave her alone but they don't seem to agree on that. She gave up on any inheritance. It's like that horrible man is still affecting her life, even from his grave.

I don't live in my home country but I wish I could help my mum. I know the bailiff full name, and work address. I also know the name of the bank.

How exactly would I write that petition for a freezer spell? I was confused if I should mention my mum's name, feels wrong to do it so what would your advice be? 🥲

The preferred outcome would be for the bank or bailiff to stop taking money from my mum. Or at least freaking less 😭

First time I make a post everrr! And it will be scattered like my brains are. This summer I got into witchcraft. I didn't know what I was going to do since I am an atheist, with spiritual sprinkles on rare occasions. SASS sounded perfect for me. I knew that I had to do research and to learn first, but I have only read "Spells for change" by Frankie Castanea (probably when I wasn't aware of SASS), and "For small creatures such as we" by Sasha Segan. Other than that, I was topping up my "wannabe knowledge" with podcasts like "An atheist witch"; "Embracing Magick", and "No nonsense spirituality". I have loads of books in my cart, but haven't bought another witchcraft book yet. Currently, I am reading a book about celibacy, and there are quite a few mentions about the witch trials. It also talks a lot about the patriarchy, so I thought it is quite fitting. Howeverrrr, I feel stuck!

Because the reason I am posting here I guess it's the fact that I actually don't practice much, because I don't know what to do. I have done a few spells only, and they were from a book called "Everyday magic". I was also taking some inspiration from a witch on YouTube.

I know witchcraft is something that I feel drawn to, it helped me a lot this summer, especially after I got out of a relationship with a narcissist. However I cannot think I will be buying, and reading dozens of books, especially because I am working and studying already. I am enrolled on a full time degree, and the amounts of reading is already overwhelming for my ADHD brain. I am not expecting an easy route either.

What I was doing was, I was going to my local nature areas with an app that recognises plants, and has the symbolism and folk correspondences. It was always a fun thing for me to do, I would pick up all sorts of plants, then drying and keeping them in a trinket. The intention was to create a spell based on what I had, and the correspondences that would happen to align with what I was looking for. I wanted to come up with a spell myself, but when I looked online, on how to proceed with your first spell, there were a thousand steps, not to mention it instigated a fear in me "what if I am not clear enough with my intention and something bad happen"? So, l knew that once I start to believe these things, it would create more anxiety rather than enthusiasm.

I was also struggling with knowing what sort of magick should I do. As long as I can remember I have been drawn to the Moon. I also love the celebrations of the seasons, the "turning of the wheel" concept.

Another thing is, I intended to take a DNA test to find out about my ancestors. The reason for this is, well I am 35 years old Romanian woman that lived in the UK, for the past 10 years, and I thought that my witchcraft should be true to myself, but the witchcraft in Romania is not something I resonate with, and the one in the UK, is predominantly wiccan/pagan which is fine, but sometimes it is like sci-fi for me, however I do appreciate it, and the history around it.

My next step was to buy a book about plants, and to try to learn about them, but I live in a studio flat, so I won't be growing loads of herbs. A realistic option would be to learn about my local herbs and work with that if any. I thought I could write spells, since I used to write poems, but then I got caught up with "should the spells be in my native language or English"? Even though I speak English more than my native language, and I can write poems in both languages, I still fixated about these things.

I think the reality is that, I still have a lot to learn before thinking I can practice anything. I started recently to like Tarot and oracle cards, something that I never thought I would. But it is early stages, and I understand I need a thousand hours of study and research first.

So, anyway this might sound foolish to ask, but if you were me what would you do from this point onwards? I just hope it's not just another "hobby phase", that I will abandon because I got too overwhelmed.

I honestly resonate a lot with witchcraft, I love the psychology of it, the rituals, the "living with intention", and the crafty bits, but as soon as things are too rigid, and with too many rules, I am not thriving anymore lol