u/Foxytreehugger

Is it really just because there could always be someone better? It’s more fun to live life always wondering, who you could meet and have a connection with? There are so many beautiful, interesting, lovely people in this world…. If you are in a committed monogamous relationship, you will never get to explore the spark you share with a stranger. This is like dating several people at once but never planning on picking your top one… right?! You just continue to date multiple people because freedom is the core value?

I’m falling for people who are poly and part of me is totally fine that they want to date other people why they date me. And also, I’m like, who has time for this? I barely have time for one partner 😅 It keeps coming into my life now I’m not sure if I am just meant to jump on the train and be open/date around or keeping hoping someone is interested in just making a commitment to be exclusive.

Sigh. Thank you for your responses. Always looking to expand and grow. I just love being in love. There’s more than enough to go around. I just also don’t know if polyamorous relationships are really what I’m looking for. I can understand it, and also, it feels like just people always hoping there’s someone better about to arrive at any moment 🫤

Hi!!! I googled this and saw other people having this same problem, but there really was no solution listed. The weirdest part is that it’s only ONE contact in all of my phone that it is doing this with!!! The one man I like too 😅

Some of his messages go to both, but a majority of messages only go to my watch and never show up on my phone at all. Also, sometimes when I try to send him messages; they do not send at all. I have to send them as a “text message” but then he will say they get sent to him twice. Do I just need to call Apple? I checked my “junk” folder and deleted messages. Everything else is all synced up. It’s so weird it’s only with one person like this.

Maybe I’ll just call Apple tomorrow. Doesn’t make sense!